Rachel | Relationship Coach ✨
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Jackie :
💯 it’ hurts still but it’s hard to not take it personal.
2026-04-30 00:32:30
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TiffTok💫 :
As a healing FA I can 100% confirm that this happens. I would sometimes dissociate so bad that I didn’t remember some moments with my ex. It was so sad and so scary. I was so disconnected and I don’t realize how much damage I was doing. And of course now I fell hard for another avoidant and he is currently destroying my heart. I was trying to stay and help him because I was once him but he doesn’t want to heal so I really need to walk away.
2026-04-30 02:51:51
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Avan :
Can they tell the difference between good and evil 🤔🤔
2026-04-30 23:44:03
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sara gunner simpson :
the "unconscious patterns" part is doing something to me rn i feel so called out
2026-05-02 20:23:56
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mrd :
Mine said she just saw it as a shield she had, to protect herself.
2026-05-13 15:35:33
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🐺❤ El Dansito de mi Anto 💙🐺 :
Thinking back, I spent my early life like this, until I realised everything I believed about my early life was a lie. I'm more secure now, but the pull away feeling is still there.
2026-05-21 19:36:59
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AceReporter :
I wish so bad that I knew what I know now when he asked me why he no longer talks to people who were once so important to him - and in many cases he doesn’t remember or know why.
2026-04-30 02:08:48
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G :
They absolutely are. Is just takes 3 months to begin. Not instant.
2026-05-01 03:34:54
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shukatt :
it doesn't matter if they're aware or not not going to therapy is a choice
2026-04-29 20:55:54
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sfenton001 :
I am an FA and this is actually brilliant. even with 20 years of therapy I am.just learning about this. my behaviour is not acceptable but I can tell you, non avoidants really have no idea the level of fear and self hate we feel. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
2026-04-29 22:19:37
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Maria Fernandez :
Either they know what they are doing or not, the outcome is the same. You become damaged.
2026-05-04 15:07:34
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user28393048 :
My ex started to have panic attacks at big events like weddings and christenings - this feels like an indicator of some of these nervous system reactions?
2026-04-29 21:34:00
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cookies&crime :
what matters to their partners is the outcome of the unhealed FA's actions. not the conscious/unconscious triggers the FA acts upon. the best advice for those who see the signs, acknowledge the behaviour and to protect themselves from the potential harm that comes with datimg FA's.
2026-04-30 07:38:31
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Royal Spawn :
I am very conscious of it, the da or narc just doesn’t dgaf. I’m secure until I think I can change them
2026-05-01 20:39:32
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