@vanessaandxander: Want to 🌶️ things up but don’t know where to start? Keep the lights on! Men may be visual creatures, but research shows women are just as visual too. Trust us when we say your partner wants to see all of you, and not just in the dark! ********************* Why do we censor words? 🤬 Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo! But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it. They’ve made me remove my title of “socks” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
problem is my girlfriend doesn't find me that attractive so it kinda just makes it worse 😂
2026-04-29 22:24:41
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Maria :
Dimmed lights for ambience is best in my opinion🥰 but completely dark should only occur if the lights were already off and a light switch is not reachable😌
2026-05-01 17:04:49
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𓅓 :
what's vanilla ?
2026-04-29 20:56:47
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Elle :
I prefer dim lights so its not so bright my eyes hurt
2026-05-02 11:32:29
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mansenolof2.0 :
Omg. Vanilla not being vanilla
2026-04-30 15:05:32
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polleplopp :
1. No bc I’m insecure
2026-05-12 11:28:06
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Meganwebbo :
I hate the way I look so id be thinking about that farrrrr too much
2026-04-30 22:13:39
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franny :
No way for us not comfortable with my body
2026-05-01 11:59:39
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user3356271304631 :
we do socks once a month..
2026-05-22 13:36:59
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MsFriz🇨🇦 :
Me just realizing that I wasn’t really very vanilla, even when I thought I was vanilla 🤣
2026-04-30 01:02:06
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Mrs.Merica :
I’m on the wrong side of tick tock I’m far far faaaaaar from vanilla . However you all are amazing for doing this ! It’s a topic many don’t want to discuss but should! Shot out to my vanilla people! Sending big O wishes !
2026-04-30 08:59:46
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Noor 🫶✝️ :
Guys my man likes getting orders and being told to do something or not do something, but I’m quite new to everything so idk what I can say to him or what orders I can give or say that will trn him on, help me out
2026-05-12 20:36:25
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xPayla :
I can't focus with lights on
2026-05-02 20:49:25
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Damian :
We like to use RGB lights, we usually mix red and blue
2026-05-13 13:21:41
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ckent109 :
I just discovered you guys today you guys came across my for you page you guys are awesome scrolling through all your content. It makes a whole lot of sense and looking forward to tomorrow.👍
2026-05-22 01:45:33
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Nat🇵🇱 :
my eyes are sensitive to light so we always use candles
2026-05-26 17:08:57
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Camilla95 :
Really love your hair Vanessa 😍
2026-05-02 09:48:03
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penelopeskoufatoglou :
do you have children?
2026-05-12 04:00:49
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𝐖𝐡𝐨.𝐢𝐬.𝐒𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞?. :
I dm’t u on tiktok
2026-05-25 20:08:26
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🪩Ricoque🪩 :
I think this is an American thing, I know exactly 0 people who has "socks" with the lights off. why wouldn't I want to see my partner??? doesn't make sense to me
2026-04-30 11:28:52
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Maddie :
Lights on please , I like to see my man and I want him to see me.
2026-04-30 11:38:56
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noyb314 :
What happens if you say "intimacy" on TikTok? I guess I'll find out
2026-04-30 06:33:18
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mari_m255 :
What if no intimate at all after two yrs of living he said he was stressed and give him time to be intimate again 😭
2026-05-10 07:07:00
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CrystalObsessed🔮💜🔮 :
I can't concentrate with lights on. Is this something you have to practice?
2026-05-25 19:25:32
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cherryJCP :
husby be like : 🙂😀🙂😀🙂😀
2026-05-03 18:29:23
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