but we are in fact not cool with whatever. we have a specific craving but don't want to ask to eat there for the 15th time this week (it's me, I am we)
2026-04-30 02:42:31
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deniz sonsaat :
i once got backlash like “we always go to places you choose” it’s because NOBODY SUGGEST ANYTHING EVEN WHEN I ASK???? you can’t complain about this while saying “whatever’s fine” like somebody has to suggest something
2026-04-30 14:40:03
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incipiental :
i've developed a very annoying decision tree that i force everyone to engage with until someone helps choose. i start with "do you want something hot or something cold?", then "are you snack-hungry or big-meal hungry?", "do you want to sit down and hang out somewhere or just grab-and-go?", "more protein or more carbs?" (if carbs "savory or sweet?"), "on a spectrum of soup to very crunchy, how much structural integrity?", "spice: yes or no?", "something familiar or something new?", "do you want a cocktail? a coffee? any specific fun-little-drink?" eventually either i can excavate what they want from their responses or they get sick of me and grow an opinion
2026-04-30 17:02:18
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Bad Satyr :
this is the plot of pluribus
2026-04-30 15:10:06
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itawildzee :
Do yall know that this is absolutely infuriating tho? I don’t care what it is or where we go I’m sick of having to do the heavy mental lifting and pick because you’ve got some internal brick wall and can’t tell me what you want.
2026-04-30 03:53:36
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Leaf Bathtubfrog :
this is why I love having a picky eater friend they always have strong opinions on what they want to eat and I'm usually happy with anything so we both win
2026-04-30 09:53:30
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ItBeSammyBug :
thats when I pull the "pick a number" card
2026-05-01 00:54:15
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Erika Gonzalez🦖 :
nah then the second I make a decision, it's "that place is too expensive" or "that place hurts my tummy." 😩
2026-04-30 14:34:11
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scruffydusk-🍔🎤 :
i hate being the only one with an actual opinion on it like yall im asking because I DONT WANT TO BE THE ONE TO DECIDE FOR EVERYONE
2026-04-30 15:48:52
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Odd :
I used to be the "cool with whatever" kind of person, and now I've upgraded to "I'm cool with whatever but if you don't have a preference I will choose for us" person lol
2026-04-30 04:48:18
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AJ :
when I'm genuinely not feeling any sort of way I've started saying "I'm down for whatever but I can make the choice if you want me to". cause I got tired of the loop XD
2026-04-30 06:25:03
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not a alien :
Then you decide and they say no
2026-05-03 01:46:07
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Ⓐtom 🏴 :
Y'all I know a lot of us genuinely dont care BUT just saying "idk idc" isn't helpful and can come off as uncaring, even if you dont care just pick a place at random and say it, you can still add "But ill go with whatever the group decides" but making a suggestion even half heartedly will help
2026-04-30 07:15:30
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shnoon ✨ :
life hack: get a party member who has a major allergy (gluten for example) cause it really does narrow down your choices. it’s still near impossible to choose but it does make it slightly easier
2026-05-20 10:41:54
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lizzie :
i hate it im not sorry😭 it bleeds into making plans "any day works for me" JUST PICK
2026-04-30 09:13:40
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Alexis Barr :
that's why I ask, "what do we NOT want rn"
2026-04-30 21:20:53
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Ace :
The magic words are “I genuinely don’t care but if you’re looking for an opinion…” etc and then just pick one at random
2026-04-30 11:12:28
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T :
5, 3, 1 game changed me and my friends lives, one person picks 5 places they’d be down to go/eat at, someone else picks 3 from the 5, and someone else picks 1 from the 3, now everyone helped decide
2026-04-30 22:15:17
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Dżidżi🧡💚 :
this is so vine
2026-05-03 09:21:36
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erindinosaur666 :
This is why I always ask “what DONT we want to eat.” It’s so much easier deciding what not to eat then what to eat and then it’s less options LMAO
2026-04-30 18:48:08
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DragonEffect :
my roommate and I are both indecisive. so unless we're craving something specific, I have a "spin the wheel" style app to help with that
2026-05-01 01:45:27
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R :
God, one time I got flamed in my school project group cause I was “the one who made all the decisions.” Then speak up??? I told them to and they still didn’t so I asked to work alone because at that point I was.
2026-05-03 16:38:26
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DPicaCHU :
When you make a decision and one person goes “Wait actually”
2026-05-01 15:31:14
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Space Ace :
all of my friends in decision paralysis
2026-04-30 05:56:09
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nathalia - aphrodite’s child :
This is so vine
2026-05-02 14:58:27
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