@mackenzieherman: I’m an avoidant, and I broke up with him, then I came back and WE GOT BACK TOGETHER! #theyalwayscomeback #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment
I have so many questions…maybe you could do a video reply if that’s easier…1) how long after the breakup did you send this message? 2) did he try reaching out to you before this or did he stay no contact (if yes to no contact, how long were you no contact) 3) did you breadcrumb him at all prior to this with any “hey” or “happy birthday” type messages? I have been following you for about 8 months since my break up. I appreciate you!!!
2026-05-07 15:44:19
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Jeisu_Joestar :
Why did she randomly unblock me around her birthday
2026-04-30 18:50:05
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LunaMoon :
Well congrats. I hope you are ready this time so nobody gets hurt. I hope she comes back too. But I’m moving forward either way. I got a life to live.
2026-04-30 12:21:56
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Kate Stanker :
I’ve been following you for about 7 months since my avoidant ended things… if you can do the work & make it back to your person, I think he will too. All the luck to you guys! That text took courage! ♥️
2026-04-30 13:44:19
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Chloe Beth :
How do you recommend avoiding becoming avoidant yourself after being discarded? It’s been 8 months and I’m still broken. I don’t see love the same way I used to. I don’t walk through life the same way or relate to people the same way. The discard fundamentally changed me and messed me up bad… she passed the same trauma she got from someone else onto me. I was so gung ho about love and dating, and now I’m terrified to let someone in again. I feel myself becoming avoidant because of her and I’m actively fighting myself to not go down that path. I was bright eyed and bushy tailed, and excited for life and love before and with her… now I’m just so scared and I can’t love anyone new. I’m scared to love someone that’s not her. I’m still scared to lose her but she’s been lost to me three times now since I met her a year ago. It doesn’t help that she’s the first person I actually let myself fall in love with. 😔 My heart has so much love to give. I have such an abundance of love and can’t imagine never loving or being loved again, but something inside me was destroyed in the heartbreak.
2026-05-01 22:46:08
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tv :
Ugh mack I’m gonna cry
2026-04-30 18:51:40
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itsr7pp3r :
I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I guess you were right. Mine broke NC with a handwritten letter.
2026-05-02 01:32:26
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bb32 :
I want this so badly. Good for you two.
2026-04-30 15:25:14
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username379482 :
Proud of you! I’m a healing avoidant too. Some of the toughest work I’ve ever done, but so worth it 🫶🏽 Best of luck to you both!
2026-04-30 13:46:07
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anastasia | PH :
can u coach all the avoidants to unavoidaint themselves so we can all just be happily inlove im tired of breaking my heart i just want love
2026-06-02 02:27:22
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Sloane Jurgens :
Congrats! Praying this can be the case for me and my now ex girlfriend 🤍
2026-05-06 00:36:25
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888 :
I hope for that day so deeply
2026-04-30 12:30:36
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pocketsquiddy :
His response is so real 😭😭😭😭😭
2026-05-02 02:08:37
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erythrium :
how many months after?
2026-05-14 20:56:44
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Tara Andrews :
Ummm…I think you already know how much I love this and the both of you!! ❤️💪🏼
2026-05-03 16:30:17
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skrzypaczka niightlin 🎻 :
My FA sent something really similar, but when I replied, he wrote that he miss me, but he doesnt’t want to make hope for me. He just want to be „normal” without responsibility and he didn’t want repair out relationship, that broke my heart again… 🥺 but I’m happy you are healing and that you both wanted choosing each othar again! ❤️
2026-05-01 08:59:46
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nikov100 :
As I Said before..... SO PROUD OF YOU MACK!!!! My best wishes for you guys!!!💯
2026-04-30 15:39:38
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Mikey Spottem :
Happy for you Mack
2026-04-30 17:17:07
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Coops :
Your content was one of the things that got me through the darkest days, thank you Mack, you deserve all the happiness, love from Australia 🇦🇺
2026-05-07 15:07:59
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lewychewy3 :
Congrats to you Mack
2026-05-06 10:45:03
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India Roy :
I hope you can stay steady and build something for both of you ❤️💐
2026-04-30 18:37:56
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Shekioya :
I blocked mine today. I am done being disrespected. I love her but can’t accept her poor communication and het words and actions don’t align. I need my control back and regulate my feelings … I will reach out one day when I am ready
2026-05-09 06:49:04
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💫✨️Rising Star✨️💫 :
keep going girl.. every new day is another win, no matter if its tiny or huge.. being massively proud of you🥰🫂
2026-04-30 20:08:23
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Dutch :
This would be more than acceptable
2026-05-23 14:30:02
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fallingin :
i hope you have the strengh to stay, this time. we all deserve you (plural) to stay. thank you for your inner work
2026-05-24 14:45:05
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