RE1D1 :
literally nothing, so ill drop some wisdom. you don't need to premeditate the answer, you need to understand the problem and understand your role. you're NOT here to win the argument, you sre NOT here to be right, or look smart, you ARE here to SOLVE A PROBLEM. this is where instead of throwing an insult back, you sit there for a minute, and think about the situation, and what the problem is, and how to fix it. maybe you are coming home late, maybe your wife just feels lonely, maybe you need to apogolise and say: okay i apologise, let me take you out for dinner to make it up to you. or maybe you can explain why you're late, maybe you're staying late bc you wanna do something big, so over the dinner, you can talk to her about your ambitions, and why its important to you, why you're staying late. and at the dinner, you can make her feel loved, explain that you care about her. you are NOT here to sound smart, you are here to solve the issue.
2026-05-11 19:25:43