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u exchange them at his place in the morning? if so, why not just drop them off at school as usual and he picks them up after. kids sence your stress and hear what you say so its just as stressful for them
2026-05-01 12:00:05
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Eric Lugo :
Her putting her little arm on me to keep her balance 🥺 So cute lol
2026-05-01 04:36:06
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Marisa :
My oldest feels the same, she doesn’t feel 100% comfortable over there. She makes the best of it but she feels “home” is mom’s house. I just let her vent and support her.
2026-05-01 20:57:04
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Rach11del :
As they get older. Ask them how they feel and how time sharing is with them? Kids prefer structure and as they grow, they would rather a week at a time at each home because of school work and studying differences at each home and the stress of back and forth
2026-05-01 02:56:19
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elzbelzox :
My oldest is 13 and I still get text messages every day from him asking me to pick him up, it is the WORST part of coparenting because legally I can’t. And I just want to.
2026-05-02 10:19:27
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Ash kay :
it was so hard for my kids to do exchanges at school. so many feeling whole also trying to get through the school day.
2026-05-01 13:31:28
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SommerMC :
I’m so happy you have someone there to help you feel safe and comfortable.
2026-05-01 15:48:47
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🫧 :
as a kid of divorce please let the kids have a say in who they want to be with when they’re a bit older. having to switch houses constantly was so exhausting you’re clearly their home. for stability they should be able to choose around 14-15 even younger if possible
2026-05-02 17:11:30
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Violet :
We are going through the same thing with my step son and his mom. She just moved to another state and is 3.5 hours away. We meet halfway but this poor kid gets sooooo stressed. He’s in therapy, we talk about emotions and consent constantly. I wish I could scoop him up and take all his worries away. It’s so tough to see them go through it but they have a strong momma as well. No one talks about how hard and how much stress the kids go through in the transition of houses
2026-05-03 09:11:40
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queenstevenson98 :
It makes me so sad when kids get stressed out when having to go to the other parents house my daughter used to go to her dad‘s house on the weekends and would get dropped off on Monday mornings at the daycare and her teacher would always tell me that she woke up during nap time screaming from a night terror every single Monday and then she would do it again on Friday knowing that the weekend was coming and she’d have to go to her dad’s house😭
2026-05-01 03:12:06
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👑Consuela Banana Hammock :
The dynamic sounds a lot more like parallel parenting, unfortunately 😞. I am so sorry, I can't imagine how hard this is and all the feelings that come up.
2026-05-02 03:24:38
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Carolina Hernandez :
My girls still hate it and we are 5yrs in, just give them a safe place to talk about thier feelings with you. You doing a great job
2026-05-01 12:57:12
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Amanda 🇨🇦 :
I love your nails! So pretty! 💅
2026-05-01 02:49:33
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Sue_Charley :
2nd 🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-01 02:26:32
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asuep069 :
We transfer my step daughter at school/daycare. Have you thought about that?
2026-05-01 04:38:56
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stephanieharrill5 :
As the kids get older, it will get much easier! It was like this for us too while my son was very young. ❤️I think about you from time to time as I have been through the same situation. Hugs 🫂
2026-05-01 20:48:33
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Jamieelarr :
First!🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-01 02:23:14
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Oem Naïm :
I’m wondering as I still have a lot to learn: what options would you have to help your son experience less stress? I feel for him 🥹
2026-05-01 11:33:00
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karissa<3 :
As a kid who went through this the kids always know and can feel the tension
2026-05-26 17:50:22
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ShellYwEllY :
Question your children bcoz you never know what really goes on at the other parent’s house, please trust me on this as the unthinkable is possible unfortunately.
2026-05-01 10:46:52
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Meghan Heilman :
You should look up @Max Areeg!!!! I feel like you two relate so so similarly.
2026-05-02 23:45:35
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sweetheart :
💞💞💞
2026-05-01 02:37:25
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Vaahini :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-02 06:22:36
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