@ysoonn7: Long-term relationships don’t always end because of one big mistake. More often, they end because of small things left undone—unspoken feelings, unmet needs, and lack of effort. Love needs maintenance; without it, even the strongest bond can slowly break.

rahayulovesu :

some relationships don't end because of one big mistake... they end because of a thousand small things left unfixed.

crow :

9yrs in relationship just ended last year, no cheating issue.. just unfair treatment, unimportant and.. and. and.. 🤷‍♂️

MissYukii :

We've been together for 5 years. I just ended it yesterday, he's just to much that even saying bad words to me feels natural to him na. I don't know what love is when he says naman na mahal niya ko but the actions are not..... synching.

𝓙𝑜𝓋𝑒𝓁𝓎𝓃 ۶ৎ :

Nakakapagod mahalin yung taong walang emotional intelligence. No sense of responsibilities and dependent sayo. Nakakadrain. Tagal ko na sinukuan. Di na kaya ng pagmamahal lang kung yung lahat ng effort paunti onti nang nawala. Matagal ko na ring ramdam na wala na talaga. 6 fcking years. Walang plano walang bago walang usad. Lahat paulit ulit hanggang sa maubos ka mapagod ka. Tama na

its_hannah07 :

almost 3 years in relationships ended yesterday, no issues and cheating but full of unspoken words, disappoinment, cycle of sorry and forgiveness. It hurts a lot knowing that he is my first love and I gave everything I can. The must painful thing I ever felt. For me to continue living is to let go of him and choosing myself.

Azurine 🌊 :

love isn't enough, effort isn't enough without respect and appreciate ❤

kaelexir :

long-term relationships don’t usually end from one big moment, it's the complex differences of two people reshaping each other until the versions they become no longer fit together, or simply incompatible.

jennn🐰 :

ended 12yrs last year. more often, they end because of small things left undone—unspoken feelings, unmet needs, and lack of effort. disappointment keeps stacking. and you just got tired to fix it.

R. :

talaga tumatayming sa oras na nag aaway kami lumalabas tong mga ganito eh, sign ba to?

Mudana :

i dunno tears just fell down my cheeks as i swiped and read those written message cause... I've been there... we've been there

mkristine :

If you ever see this, keep in mind that I only stopped wanting you bc i can no longer feel the consistency, efforts and communication. Small details matters, unfixed small fights are stacked up. I can’t settle for love that doesn’t allow me to grow and experience how beautiful life could be. I never stopped loving you, I had to leave bc I know u won’t. I had to leave so we can both grow in our own, bloom in our own ways, and experience the life we are missing.

DiviNa :

10 years relationship almost ended no 3rd party just too tired and lack of communication .

JENNYQUAAA :

I ended my 6 years relationship just 6 months ago, we're okay hindi kami nagaway ng super laki yun pala dahil sa paulit ulit na issue na hindi nya sinusubukang ayusin diko namamalayan nawawala na yung love then I pray to God na kung hindi sya para sakin sana magkaron na ako ng courage na hiwalayan sya. Then nung naghiwalay kami I don't feel any more pain, sabi ko baka during the relationship i was healing na din baka habang paulit ulit ko syang pinapatawad ay unti unti kona din inihahanda ang sarili ko para kung dadating ang panahon na kaya kona ay dina ako magsisisi at diko na sya babalikan pa

ra.m_498 :

Follow to follow, no unfollow unless you unfollow me first, comment done

Shizuka :

"When silence feels heavier than arguments and you stop trying to fix it".

jusss :

im at this point righ now, its just really sad when you realize you found peace on their absence

Aeren :

i thought those less talks means we're getting matured cuz we already understand each other. cuz he's busy with work and i understand him

Lenyh Yaj :

lala ng timing ah, ganto kami now, no consistency, no effort, just silence, I'm almost done reaching her out cuz eventually there's still no reciprocation, I'm trying all my best thought that she'd do it back.

Chokie MJ :

Nakaktakot ma fall out of love sa taong Sobrang Minahal mo 💔

Sheena Dela Rosa :

It’s not always cheating, sometimes.. mga pangakong napako, hindi nag babago, walang plano, gusto mo umusad pero siya? It’s not always cheating.

pspspspsps :

I'll leave my footprints are here👣

"get a grip khun thee" :

sometimes it's always the small things. those small things you left unfixed, I always choose to forgive, and just forget about it because i was tired discussing about it because it would just end into an argument. so i stop sulking over small matters just because i don't want to turn it into an argument, i thought it was okay, I thought if i ignore it i live with peace. untill those small things suffocate me. when i wake up and have to invalidate my own feelings, when all I've heard is about how i hurt him. how he overthink because I've changed. because i seems like doesn't care about him anymore. now he only sees my mistakes. it always the “ you doesn't seems to care at all. ” “ you've changed.” “ why your not begging anymore? ” “ why you stop fixing things anymore? ” i went silent. and just realized that i felt nothing at all. no excitement, bored, no expectations. and realized, i was tired forgiving him. i was tired expecting things from that only turn into disappointment. i was tired begging for him to fix us. i was tired validating his feelings when i had to invalidate mine. I was tired fixing him while i was also breaking into pieces. i was tired to understand him everytime he doesn't understand himself anymore when I'm also barely surviving and have to be strong so that i could be there for him. i was there, when no one wanted too. i believe him when no one else did. I've waited. and then now! i was tired. tired of invalidating my pain. tired of hoping, tired of expecting, he only see me when i stop begging and stop fixing things, and started to choose myself first, now he only see my mistakes. and to be honest, it kinda doesn't bother me at all. i realize that those small things for him, was what really mattered to me. 😊

jeleya :

Jokes on u guys im getting married soon. Please never get tired of loving someone just because theyre far. My fiancee is 13k kms away from me, tons of arguments, lack of time and sht. 24/7 naka vc pero di nag uusap. Communication talaga pinakamagandang panapat sa LDR promise. Never expect them to know how you feel kung di ka naman nagsabi. Open dapat kayo sa isat isa kasi may distance na nga sa inyo na literal tapos dadagdagan nyo pa ng distance sa mga puso nyo. 2 years na kaming LDR mahirap pero kakayanin parin. Mag adjust both sides, di lang dapat sya or di lang dapat ikaw. Kung gusto nyo magwork ang relasyon communication lang. never hide your true emotions kasi yan ang sisira sa relasyon nyo.

Kath :

I thought the risk was worth it, until I realized I was the only one willing to take it.

juancho :