@elly.psychologist: If you keep finding yourself explaining your feelings over and over in a relationship and nothing changes, it might be time to step back. When your partner always deflects, minimises your feelings, or makes you doubt yourself, you can end up feeling lost and unsupported. A healthy relationship should make space for your emotions and understanding, not leave you feeling worse after every conversation. If you are constantly feeling unheard, it may be time to focus on your own needs and look for support that truly helps you feel seen and valued #Relationship #relationshiptok #relationshipproblems #relationshiptips #relationshipissues

Elly | Counseling Psychologist
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themellapot
Mella Pro :
I tried for 2.5 years 🙄 I’m ashamed and embarrassed it took me so long to accept reality
2026-05-09 00:14:33
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venus_tsuyome
☆⋆。‧˚ʚ♡ANTIPATHY♡ɞ˚‧。⋆☆ :
I need this woman as my therapist…
2026-05-04 09:59:25
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phdimmunedoc
DocRen :
I've been married for 28yrs & This is my relationship! What do I do??? I've spent more if my life w/my husband than my own parents....How do you leave & start from square one?!?!?! 😩🥺😢
2026-05-24 18:32:46
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samanyha890
sam y :
yes this is ehat i am stuggling with i give up but stull dtay in this lop , ok thank you u gien me somthing to tbink about
2026-06-27 18:11:04
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kellierose55
Kellie :
Everytime I try to tell him my feelings he always say well what about mine.
2026-05-02 19:59:44
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shannonbrown551
Shannon Brown :
lol.. it took me 6 years
2026-06-21 08:01:34
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ampaulos
AME Etif-Bekur :
The last one I dealt with lasted about a year or so, and then I just couldn’t take it anymore, I was literally DONE💔. And the dude still didn’t get it… I mean, to this day, (been years since we ended it) 😭😭😂 I had my own part in it too though, I saw the signs a few months in, but I was like, “he’s got so much potential, we can make it work.” (my own red flag 🚩)
2026-05-02 23:46:01
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fitmommaonamission
FitMommaOnaMission :
You truly are speaking to everything I am feeling all the time…. How to break free?? Every post I have watched of yours that I have watched are spot on.
2026-06-22 03:04:59
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yourfavourite._.789
🥀🥀Deepa🥀🥀 :
I cried and cried and all he will say to me you can cry 😭 and talk over and over he don’t care he will hear it on one ear and pass it to the other ear😭😭😭😭
2026-05-20 08:07:52
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david_mc_mullin
David McMullin :
Yes, Sometimes it takes decades to realise this.
2026-05-17 14:13:46
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j0ana.68
J0ana.68 :
Six months after the breakup. I ended our mutual agreement because I could no longer tolerate his careless attitude toward the situation, and I drew a line under it—which immediately triggered a panic attack. Only now, four months later, do I understand his perspective. It’s incredible how different our perspectives are.
2026-05-02 17:12:13
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deefab73
deefab73 :
yes he gets up while I'm crying and walks away
2026-05-18 10:07:09
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ryanford0583
ryan 🇳🇴 :
You sound like you genuinely care!! 😢
2026-06-21 08:42:00
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angiesbookcornerr
angiesbookcornerr :
When a mom call u to say you haven’t called ME in year. It was 7 in the morning and I was confused. They are the parent period.
2026-05-02 22:20:34
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sugar3nhoney
Sugar🤤 :
Instantly clicked “ follow”. Thank you for your work . I needed this
2026-05-09 15:03:59
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user88240854792625
כנרת זוהר-להב :
You are a ray of sunshine
2026-05-20 18:39:20
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chosen.one222
ChosenOne🩵 :
I love you sm honestly thank you for getting me seriously
2026-05-08 02:11:32
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jdsmumma
Kris :
when they tell you the conversation about it is bullsh** and vanish for 8 days and counting
2026-06-05 04:16:29
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oml.kami
Oh my gosh Lorna :
What if im trying to ignore but they’re doing magic
2026-05-03 10:05:27
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4everalone93
AlienAnonymous :
picks at certain words I say and starts a weird thing about them, like to confuse me or make me seem like im not being consistent in what I am saying.. the more I try to explain after the more they cut me off and then say they dont care and feelings dont really matter and then ignore me the rest of the day and sometimes the next day. I have to walk on eggshells to make sure I dont upset them again after they are the one who hurt me.
2026-05-04 19:23:10
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shelostcontrol_la
shelostcontrol :
I'm sending this to my fiance ty
2026-05-05 07:46:13
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yorkshiremum0
Yorkshire Mum :
what if he won't except that its over and despite me explaining over and over again .. he keeping asking why .
2026-05-05 13:15:22
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___n__037
____gh_28 :
After 4.5 years at the point of the discard, I realised she never saw me for who I was and only assumed I was through her own lens
2026-05-06 23:01:33
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soraysoul
Soraya Soul :
How do you just get other support when it’s your only family left
2026-05-04 19:31:44
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goddess_raven_
❌Just Dawn❌🌛🌝🌜 :
I move done rhis and I’m done explaining over and over.
2026-05-07 06:26:48
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