@aubreyy5627: This is the system we’ve found that works best for splitting our bills, and it fits our relationship really well. Of course every couple is different, and what works for us might not be the right approach for someone else, and that’s completely okay. There’s no “one size fits all”method when it comes to managing finances together. For us, maintaining a sense of balance is really important. I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable having him take on all the financial responsibility while I contribute nothing. In my view, a healthy relationship involves shared effort, including when it comes to money. That doesn’t always mean everything has to be split perfectly down the middle, but there should be fairness and mutual contribution in a way that works for both people. I also think it’s important that we both have the ability to enjoy and manage our own money. Just like I value having financial independence and freedom, he deserves that same opportunity. Neither of us should feel burdened or stretched too thin while the other carries less responsibility. At the end of the day, it’s about teamwork, respect, and making sure we’re both contributing in a way that feels right and sustainable for us! #couple #financesinyour20s #ilovemybf
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Saturday 02 May 2026 02:29:51 GMT
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mdk_816 :
no way, a reasonable couple on this app 😭🙏
2026-05-04 17:03:06
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_JigglyPuff_ :
I get nervous when I tell people when we get our place we wanna do 50/50 cuz so many people judge and are mean
2026-05-05 18:33:06
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ajani :
hot take: the split is whatever tf you want it to be as long as yall communicate
2026-05-06 05:37:29
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Ivan 🤠 :
this is the ideal system btw
2026-05-05 22:26:15
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notrachealray :
he pays all of rent, i buy groceries and house essentials, both of our cars are paid off, and we split all utilities in half, so we each pay about 2-3 bills.
2026-05-06 01:46:29
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Kory :
What does he do for work if you don’t mind me asking. I’m trying to make more money so I can give my girl a better life
2026-05-06 01:42:02
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Madi❤️ :
This is exactly how my fiancee and I have done it since the beginning! It’s so much easier than nickel and diming it. At this point all of our money is in the same pot anyway
2026-05-03 16:37:40
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Chase :
Social media convinced people that this is wrong 😔
2026-05-06 02:08:47
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YouWildin :
Thank you for being the ONE woman on this app that understands this type of relationship.
2026-05-06 05:19:11
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berriqt :
i always tell my friends “i’d rather pay half of everything and live with someone i love than be alone and still having to pay 100% of everything”
2026-05-05 22:33:57
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Cheyanne🪬🔮 :
My husbands in the military so it’s literally him: 100% me :0% on everything bc he hates me spending all my money on stuff 😭but I still buy things so it’s more like 90/10😂
2026-05-06 11:47:57
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Abby (tay’s ver.) ⁷ :
This is so realistic
2026-05-04 02:13:33
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Omri :
I love this! I feel like this is how relationships should be. Nobody should pay everything while the other pays nothing. It's a team effort not one sided 😁
2026-05-04 11:50:05
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Just_Aster1⚡️ :
Honestly you got that, seems balanced as fuck
2026-05-06 03:12:17
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JM :
Now THIS is a partnership. Beautiful reminder that couples who love each other just as much as the other person still exist
2026-05-07 10:01:09
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Cj :
Yes this is the only realistic one I’ve ever seen on this app
2026-05-06 21:15:51
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vail_10 :
Healthy, balanced, secure
2026-05-06 23:15:17
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Tara Beth<3 :
this looks really healthy!!
2026-05-04 11:55:19
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Draco100K :
realistic asf
2026-05-06 05:07:34
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CJRike :
This is a healthy relationship! I also cover rent and utilities and the basics while my gf covers things like outings and adventures
2026-05-05 19:37:25
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Chronically Nellie :
I can only contribute $671 a month so my money is the fun money and my husband covers the necessities. I wish I could give more but I’m disabled
2026-05-07 00:45:15
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tiff :
I love this for you guys it’s actually extremely fair and reasonable! Good on both of you ❤️
2026-05-04 21:20:03
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Sara Vazquez :
First realistic couple dynamics ok tik tok that make sense
2026-05-06 12:24:26
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dwightshrooooot :
Wow this is the first one I’ve seen that seems fair and reasonable.
2026-05-04 19:17:02
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