@coach.ryan0: The slow fade isn’t confusion… it’s a discard they don’t have the capacity to own. Less texts. Less effort. Less you. Stop decoding it. Start walking away. 👉 Avoidant Exit Strategy (link in bio) #a#avoidantattachmentd#datingadvicet#toxicrelationshipse#emotionalunavailabilityattachmentstyles
Thank you for all the video’s you make 🌹 it was 3 years of torture being with a avoidant. You helped a lot, helping me understanding what it all means, and getting to a point where I could give up and leave.
2026-05-02 17:28:26
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Hannah 🦋 :
Yep slow fade is painful.,,till you give up..and break up with them first
2026-05-02 20:25:53
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ElieeGe :
I lived this. The slow pain, there’s no words to describe it. I didn’t end it, but I was pushing and pushing for an explanation, over and over again and when I finally got the words out, it was to tell me ‘I have felt disconnected for the last year’. Year!!!! This is the worse experience I’ve ever had. Even with the slow break up, it was totally unexpected and blindsided.
2026-05-02 23:48:51
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aleksa unscripted 🖤 :
it's unbearable... 🥺
2026-05-04 14:50:51
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Kat :
Jokes on me, my ex did both. They first disregarded me out of nowhere and broke up with me, then came back two later. Everything was well for a month and then BOOM the sudden switch happened and they started treating me like shit so I can broke up with them.
2026-05-03 12:46:18
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Kolovaluna :
it can be both. act 1: slow pull away. act 2: the final cut
2026-05-03 11:35:30
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that_staffymom :
This makes me so sad and angry.
2026-05-04 15:48:44
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Anik II 🇨🇦 :
So painful .... it took so long ...
2026-05-02 17:32:09
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megan.a.s85 :
But how do u know it is fading or they’re in a pull away come back phase?
2026-05-10 02:22:33
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LF :
And tell you they want to make it work
2026-05-02 19:17:42
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gneous :
It's the worst feeling in the world
2026-05-24 18:40:44
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Little Moments With Raejay :
this is the one most people dont talk about
2026-05-03 15:37:00
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annie :
sure very painful 😔 but once you overcome the pain you're totally a different person
2026-05-16 06:40:02
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Penny :
Oooooh, those long 8 months, til finally the nickel dropped. Never again.
2026-05-03 01:57:48
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Suzie M 🦋💘💝🦋 :
Over months and didn't realise xx
2026-05-02 18:30:24
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Dany :
Love it!
2026-05-03 06:59:23
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jeremyws911 :
Yup
2026-05-02 18:18:49
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jRoldo :
this is what happened to me. she stopped doing chores in March, then in April she stopped all cohabitating activities. I went to work May 1st thinking we're going to have to work out our issues eventually. I came home and she was gone.
2026-05-03 04:32:50
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AkAy :
Yes, this was my story. She did that slow fade to me, and I said goodbye to her, but then I felt so much regret and pain after that. I broke no contact multiple times but she didn’t accept me and at the end, blocked me on everything, naturally.
2026-06-10 23:51:07
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mookitty23🇨🇦 :
So what do we do in these moments? Because I’m experiencing this right now. And idk what to do. Do i jsut end it? Do i wait? Is it worth waiting to see?
2026-05-03 01:09:17
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