@coach.ryan0: The slow fade isn’t confusion… it’s a discard they don’t have the capacity to own. Less texts. Less effort. Less you. Stop decoding it. Start walking away. 👉 Avoidant Exit Strategy (link in bio) #a#avoidantattachmentd#datingadvicet#toxicrelationshipse#emotionalunavailabilityattachmentstyles

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jule_y
Jane :
Thank you for all the video’s you make 🌹 it was 3 years of torture being with a avoidant. You helped a lot, helping me understanding what it all means, and getting to a point where I could give up and leave.
2026-05-02 17:28:26
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hannah_thatoregongirl
Hannah 🦋 :
Yep slow fade is painful.,,till you give up..and break up with them first
2026-05-02 20:25:53
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elieege1
ElieeGe :
I lived this. The slow pain, there’s no words to describe it. I didn’t end it, but I was pushing and pushing for an explanation, over and over again and when I finally got the words out, it was to tell me ‘I have felt disconnected for the last year’. Year!!!! This is the worse experience I’ve ever had. Even with the slow break up, it was totally unexpected and blindsided.
2026-05-02 23:48:51
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aleksa_unscripted
aleksa unscripted 🖤 :
it's unbearable... 🥺
2026-05-04 14:50:51
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morsghost
Kat :
Jokes on me, my ex did both. They first disregarded me out of nowhere and broke up with me, then came back two later. Everything was well for a month and then BOOM the sudden switch happened and they started treating me like shit so I can broke up with them.
2026-05-03 12:46:18
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kolovaluna
Kolovaluna :
it can be both. act 1: slow pull away. act 2: the final cut
2026-05-03 11:35:30
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that_staffymom
that_staffymom :
This makes me so sad and angry.
2026-05-04 15:48:44
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anik.ii8
Anik II 🇨🇦 :
So painful .... it took so long ...
2026-05-02 17:32:09
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megan.a.s85
megan.a.s85 :
But how do u know it is fading or they’re in a pull away come back phase?
2026-05-10 02:22:33
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lf81070
LF :
And tell you they want to make it work
2026-05-02 19:17:42
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gneous
gneous :
It's the worst feeling in the world
2026-05-24 18:40:44
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lilmomentswithraejay83
Little Moments With Raejay :
this is the one most people dont talk about
2026-05-03 15:37:00
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user1945096627340
annie :
sure very painful 😔 but once you overcome the pain you're totally a different person
2026-05-16 06:40:02
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penny3705
Penny :
Oooooh, those long 8 months, til finally the nickel dropped. Never again.
2026-05-03 01:57:48
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suzie.m30
Suzie M 🦋💘💝🦋 :
Over months and didn't realise xx
2026-05-02 18:30:24
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poli_dany
Dany :
Love it!
2026-05-03 06:59:23
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jeremyws911
jeremyws911 :
Yup
2026-05-02 18:18:49
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jroldo0
jRoldo :
this is what happened to me. she stopped doing chores in March, then in April she stopped all cohabitating activities. I went to work May 1st thinking we're going to have to work out our issues eventually. I came home and she was gone.
2026-05-03 04:32:50
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akaygunel
AkAy :
Yes, this was my story. She did that slow fade to me, and I said goodbye to her, but then I felt so much regret and pain after that. I broke no contact multiple times but she didn’t accept me and at the end, blocked me on everything, naturally.
2026-06-10 23:51:07
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mookitty23
mookitty23🇨🇦 :
So what do we do in these moments? Because I’m experiencing this right now. And idk what to do. Do i jsut end it? Do i wait? Is it worth waiting to see?
2026-05-03 01:09:17
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