@stevenmilano: Avoidants don't blow things up because things are going badly. They blow things up because things are going well. Because well means close. Close means vulnerable. And vulnerable means the possibility of being hurt by someone they actually let in. So they end it first. On their own terms. The Avoidant Exposed 🩻-linked on my profile.
It is heartbreaking when someone you love throws you and the relationship away like it never meant anything to them. But it ends up being a blessing cause you don’t want someone in your life that runs when things get real
2026-05-03 15:26:11
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KHicks5079 :
Well that’s unfair because they leave people shattered and fighting internal battles.
2026-06-18 04:07:50
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Skywalker :
it's all so textbook. it's verbatim. fascinating
2026-06-15 21:28:08
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Kim :
he told me he loved me then broke up with me 4 days later
2026-05-03 12:05:17
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Chris Thomas :
It takes the right person to love an avoidant. It’s usually worth it to learn about them. 🥺
2026-05-03 20:22:35
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Kathy B :
saddest, most confusing relationship. also the most loving one that I have ever had.
2026-05-17 12:40:38
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kkd6694 :
It’s so cruel never experienced anything like it
2026-05-03 13:54:35
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toriontiktok :
must have only felt real 4 years in and now I’m abandoned
2026-05-03 15:07:42
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Audrey Byker :
It’s so painful and absolutely yes subconscious
2026-05-02 23:40:37
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jodie<3 :
It was getting so real, so routinely and like he was really falling for me..three month hits and he ends it with me saying feelings changed
2026-05-03 23:41:38
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MaKayla Ashley :
the worst thing i’ve experienced..
2026-05-26 13:28:46
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Linara :
it depends on their MBTI personality type, as introverted and extroverted avoidants, act completely different in relationships, so this doesn't apply to every person that's emotionally unavailable.
2026-05-02 23:46:45
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user2713569140649 :
It's the hardest thing I ever experienced.
2026-05-12 23:49:36
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Elon Musk's Diva Cup :
Things seemed to be going so well, but he said he never developed feelings. I'm kinda done with it 🤷🏾♀️
2026-05-03 04:15:20
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GhostedHearts :
No matter what you do or say or don't do or don't say. The end is always the same.
2026-05-14 13:29:39
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tm07215 :
Bc it’s tragic
2026-05-13 01:53:35
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iluvhllktty :
🥺 We were doing so good
2026-05-04 19:26:28
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michelle 💙🦋 :
I wish I left him when he had first discarded me. but I was young and didn't know any better. my validation wound was bad, but now we know ❤️🩹
2026-05-05 04:22:07
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🌼SweetAsBrandy🌼 :
we had the best time at a concert Friday night and I havent heard from him since he left my house Saturday morning. 4 years of this and I'm tired
2026-05-08 05:27:02
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Gillian Sprovieri :
It’s heartbreaking as the person that gets discarded. I think I’ve been discarded and picked back up 10x now and now it’s just a viscous loop
2026-05-13 01:47:42
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zarry :
are they aware?
2026-05-03 00:20:57
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Luke :
The fact that this describes me 😭
2026-05-12 04:11:29
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Mike W :
I always thought I was the problem thinking all of our fights were because I've always done something wrong but it wasn't the case. I told her I've never had arguments over nothing like this in any other relationship. She said I was worse than her ex (who hurt her so much and wasn't loyal). Then everytime we would fight she would go extremely quiet but majority of the time she would leave for days and come back like nothing happened and we wouldn't even talk about it and if I brought it up she would leave again. Took me such a long time to stop blaming myself for everything that happened, in the end I had to break up with her and block her after 2 years. I kept trying but this loop kept on happening regardless of what I said or did. Wasn't easy at all.
2026-05-04 22:18:47
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