@abbygcm: in the happiest moments is when i miss you the most and wish you could be here 💛 #siblingloss#brotherloss#fyp#fypage#grief

emmy ⋆.˚⟡ ࣪ ˖ :

someone once said, you shouldn’t feel guilty for living a life they would’ve wanted you to live

Jae-lea Marie :

Its so unfair that life keeps moving forward after they're gone.

Arabxiia :

But I’m always grieving you because no matter how happy i am I will ALWAYS be 50% sad.

aimee_lynn :

„since I had to learn to be someone you don’t know” from eternity breaks me every single time

belalalalala16 :

This is the realest thing I’ve ever seen about grief

Daisy D. :

It’s not even guilt, it’s the feeling of me wanting her to be here to enjoy it with me

altina :

you didn’t hold my hand while saying this…

soph 🤍 :

i felt so guilty during my entire graduation. i wanted to cry, to grieve but i couldnt. i was so overwhelmed with joy, with adrenaline. all i did was think about how much i want them there, but i was so happy i made it regardless. the guilt disappeared just as quickly as it came because i soon remembered, thats what they want. they want me to be filled with joy, they dont want to see me cry and hurt. so recently instead of grieving with sadness, i grieve with happiness. i force myself to be happy for them. because thats all theyve wanted, is happiness for me. they wanted to live, and i have that privilege. so i’ll live, every day because they cant.

cynthia_lou :

Felt this babe! We have to remember they’d want us to live, dance to their favorite songs, see the artist they never got to, enjoy life as if they were right beside us because they’re always with us! ❤️It can be hard but it’s so worth it❤️you’re doing amazing abs

Elizabeth Henderson :

I dont enjoy life but I know I will someday

💔 :

I don't even see if I can heal anymore

𝓐 💌 :

this is the realest thing I’ve seen. Sometimes I feel guilty for enjoying my life because what do you mean I’m not sad about losing my mom ?

Shana 🦋 :

It’s the little things that hurt the most.. That was something I never was prepared for… And the fact that you maybe don’t cry everyday but there is not a second you don’t think about them.. You stay strong girl 🫶🏻

Britt :

missing my dad❤️

savannah😽 :

This is how i feel with my having a miscarriage last March bc im now 4 months pregnant and every happy moments that comes with this pregnancy a little thought in my head is upset that im happy about this baby and not still grieving my lost baby

aftergloww :

☽𖤐ソフィア𖤐☾ :

until i remember how happy they were when i was happy, so i just imagine them cherish my happy moments with me from heaven💖

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Deonna🦆 :

i feel that. i feel guilty when im happy with my 4 earth side kids knowing i have a baby in heaven 😭 how do i move on. its been 9 years 😞

Charspriv_ ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :

I’m sure who ever passed away will have wanted u to live ur life the fullest like they would have so please don’t let this take over u and try reward yourself x

Kerra🤨 :

divineshae :

This has helped me with still going, I think of it as my passed sister, can feel through my fingers, when I hold something, she can still see through my eyes, so when I’m taking care of myself— It’s almost like there’s still a spark of her energy or life force that can live through my eyes. She can continue living on through me, so if anything happens to me, I need to make sure i’m well, but that’s how I try to reword my grieving brain

𝒶𝒹𝒹𝒾 ✞ :

i feel guilty for not posting about them as much anymore, i feel guilty being happy while they aren’t here but it’s apart of the grief journey, we are growing and accepting it and it puts our body at ease.

C :

This is so accurate.