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viicleee
Vic :
Are we all going through avoidant discards rn
2026-05-04 16:43:10
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itsveevi
vanessa :
April of doom and despair
2026-05-03 11:39:47
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nyanclown
nyanclown :
being discarded with no explanation after planning a future together has left me in a state of psychosis.. so now I'm just distracting myself by streaming binging games.. its really helpful cus it stops me from bedrotting/ checking for a reply constantly/monitoring his online activity... and watching myself over the weeks kinda helps to see progress
2026-05-07 01:04:36
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toriontiktok
toriontiktok :
I needed up hear this. I am going through a non-amicable break-up that was sudden then blocked on everything immediately after he said his “I don’t think I want to be in a relationship anymore” statement. Completely one-sided decision that I was forced to accept bc he ended all communication after saying it. Blocked me on every single outlet after his call. Four years together with no conversation about it. It’s a strange feeling.
2026-05-03 12:41:56
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just.chocolatine
Justine 💌 :
Life is so much bigger than dating. Focusing on yourself and loving yourself is the best thing you can do.
2026-05-04 12:21:54
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_dansemacabre_
Anna Victoria 🦋🌙 :
Mine ignored my very vulnerable messages where I poured my heart out, never apologized for anything, gave me the silent treatment, never even so much as acknowledged any of my feelings. And that hurt so bad and it’s made me close my heart off but it told me everything I needed to know about how he felt about me. If you’re not even worth a message or an acknowledgment or anything at all, they didn’t care about you. Take that as closure, even though it’s incredibly painful and hard to accept. Nobody who loves or cares about you would treat you like you’re less than a person.
2026-05-03 20:44:46
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la.mininaa
adriana :
mine made it seem like we’d be okay and would be willing to keep me in his life. he started breadcrumbing me until he just stopped. it caused me to spiral and send vulnerable messages that at first he got all cold and detached about and then just left me on read. he’s only there when its convenient for him.
2026-05-04 09:08:41
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_crystille
crystille :
mine slept with someone else the day before i came back from a month long trip lol im so good actually
2026-05-04 14:19:09
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reagancausetta
reagancausetta :
I blocked him but only because last time we broke up he reached out and it made me spiral and get back together with him. 8 years together and he said he would be fine losing me over nor proposing. I don’t think what I did was wrong. We talked about it for months I think this makes the person who needed space look bad when it shouldn’t
2026-05-03 23:56:20
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eemimimi22
Mimi :
have u ever been in love? i am curious how u got to this stage of enlightenment 😭
2026-05-03 14:24:09
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r3farchives
r3farchives :
going through a friendship breakup :(
2026-05-05 22:33:20
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galactic_dweeb
galactic_dweeb :
They had asked for space no texting/calling and I honored it. I had asked when I would know and they would text me, after 6 weeks I found on fb they changed their relationship status without telling me so I texted and ended it myself. It still hurts so much 🥺
2026-05-04 22:09:11
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eyedrcait
Cait :
*sigh* unfortunately he’s been pretty freaking great.
2026-05-04 19:21:28
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mynameisreginaphalange
mynameisreginaphalange :
He has someone else. I would bet anything 😭
2026-05-03 18:26:48
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lilykfka
lily :
people’s actions are a form of communication ✨
2026-05-11 19:18:11
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_dvnarvn_
_dvnarvn_ :
my ex ended our marriage over text... 13 years together total
2026-05-05 07:10:07
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noidzoids
caprimoon :
Girl me 😭
2026-05-03 09:34:45
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appleuser79383317
appleuser79383317 :
What if they're very considerate during the breakup?
2026-05-12 04:40:35
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jellypanpan
panpan :
I think it’s really hard for me to get over him cause we ended things because of long distance and he was devastated too and was as gentle and sweet as he could to me on our last date. Wiping my tears kissing my face and hugging me so tight like
2026-07-02 05:48:01
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dirtboystudio
Dirt Boy Studio :
It’s crazy how they switch from loving you one day, to treating you like nothing. It hurts a lot.
2026-05-05 00:33:28
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postttol
🍒 :
True, my ex tried to hit on my friend a month after he discarded me
2026-05-03 05:48:52
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kimberlyydang
Kimberly Dang :
If you genuinely vocalise that you feel it’s reached a point where the treatment has reached an insane INHUMANE level then absolutely never ever talk to them again but I completely understand how long it takes to even heal from smth like this
2026-05-09 08:15:21
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habibakatsha
Habiba Katsha :
!!!
2026-06-08 10:28:14
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lily902233737927
Les6182739282782 :
I dumped My ex of 11 years he discarded the reason and eneded up blaming me and I never heard of him after that it’s been 3 weeks of no contact and It hurts since I didn’t get no respond back
2026-06-25 03:48:52
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من الداخل. بدلاً من التركيز على ما ينقصك، ابدأ بتقدير ما تملكه الآن. • تمرين بسيط: دوّن كل يوم ثلاثة أشياء بسيطة جعلتك تبتسم (كوب قهوة، رسالة من صديق، أو حتى لحظة هدوء). هذا يدرب عقلك على رصد الإيجابيات وسط الضجيج. • توقف عن المقارنة: تذكر أن وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي تعرض
من الداخل. بدلاً من التركيز على ما ينقصك، ابدأ بتقدير ما تملكه الآن. • تمرين بسيط: دوّن كل يوم ثلاثة أشياء بسيطة جعلتك تبتسم (كوب قهوة، رسالة من صديق، أو حتى لحظة هدوء). هذا يدرب عقلك على رصد الإيجابيات وسط الضجيج. • توقف عن المقارنة: تذكر أن وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي تعرض "أفضل اللقطات" فقط، فلا تقارن كواليس حياتك المتعبة بعروض الآخرين المثالية. 2. إدارة العقل والمشاعر أفكارك هي التي تلون عالمك؛ إذا كانت سوداوية، سيصبح العالم باهتًا. • عش اللحظة: القلق هو عيش في المستقبل الذي لم يأتِ بعد، والندم هو عيش في الماضي الذي انتهى. ركز على "الآن". • تقبل المشاعر: الحياة ليست سعادة دائمة. من الطبيعي أن تحزن أو تغضب، تقبل هذه المشاعر وأعطِ نفسك حقها في التعبير ثم امضِ قدمًا. 3. الاستثمار في العلاقات الإنسان كائن اجتماعي بطبعه، وجود دائرة داعمة هو سر الصمود النفسي. • النوعية لا الكمية: صديق واحد حقيقي يفهم صمتك خير من مئة صديق للمجاملات. • العطاء: مساعدة الآخرين تعزز هرمونات السعادة (الإندورفين). اصنع يومًا جميلًا لشخص آخر، وستجد أن يومك أصبح أجمل تلقائيًا. #outfitideast #مشاهير_تيك_توك_مشاهير_العرب 💜🌺 #اخوتي #الشعب_الصيني_مال

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