theavoidantlab
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𒉭 :
They will just say okay and keep on with their day bro
2026-05-03 23:17:28
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Jazz C (taylor's version) :
as an avoidant, these just make me want to avoid even more. the tone just sounds ✨angry✨
2026-05-05 00:18:59
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user9487138948260 :
Just talk to people forget the dam phone this whole dictionary of terms and methods is exhausting
2026-06-17 23:50:30
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cookies&crime :
even better : dont send any message. dont call. move on. if they call, dont answer. if they message, dont respond. detach. the only reason you would want to send such messages is to soothe yourself for letting your boundaries to get violated. they really dont care about how you feel. the sooner you understand that, the better. for them and for you.
2026-05-05 15:43:21
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SarahCC :
The avoidant in me would peace right out to this.
2026-05-04 22:02:47
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Sammy Jo :
assuming someone is avoidant instead of busy or uninterested is so problematic
2026-05-04 22:31:55
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Jase ☀️ :
im avoidant, but I've been working hard on healthy communication even when im scared or hurt. my wounds are deep, but im slowly healing and grateful im aware of my hurt. fear is horrible, but i want to love and know im not going to be consumed by emotions ✨👏
2026-05-16 14:59:01
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Cosmic Shaman VIKI :
As an avoidant this will just close the tab for me lol
2026-05-24 09:41:21
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ramani :
@ramani: As an avoidant, I’d reply: Space is not for yours to give. If I need it I’m taking it. If me asking for space makes you feel ignored then I’m sorry, but this doesn’t work for you and you need to do what’s right for you. 2. Okay. 3. I need space. That’s where I’m at.
2026-06-03 20:24:30
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Melania Davila :
As an avoidant none of this would work on me .
2026-05-05 22:50:49
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𝒞𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓉✞ :
this isn’t how to deal with an avoidants
2026-06-06 18:43:12
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Tess :
The best thing about an avoidant is leaving.
2026-06-10 17:40:18
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𖠰 Western Yankee 𖠰 :
I'm a dismissive avoidant and all of these would cause me to step back farther.
2026-05-09 05:20:40
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Shannon🖤 :
I hate after all the patience, understanding, dismissing my own hurt I hopes of her growth, this is what I finally have to say. It’s like I’ve been in a relationship alone. Heartbreaking. ❤️🩹
2026-05-26 12:56:27
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Nika :
As an avoidant who’s healing, this is important. Sometimes you guys need to set the boundaries. Some of avoidants might change their behavior, but some won’t. That’s when you know that you need to let go, take a step back, and move on!!
2026-05-12 00:44:45
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Matteo🦦™ :
as an "avoidant" I'd prefer the last one bc it makes me feel seen.. all I've ever wanted is to feel seen for who I am .. not seen for who other people want me to be .. so I pull away bc I keep selling myself short to keep the peace in the rls
2026-05-13 12:14:42
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TheoN :
Boundaries are supposed to be entirely about what YOU do
2026-05-05 05:03:02
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helloLindaVictoria :
nah don’t even text
2026-05-05 00:49:54
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jillianfiala6 :
I wouldn’t send anything…
2026-05-05 00:32:23
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sara elizabeth ⚕ tarot reader :
Those pointing out that these boundaries won’t “work”—I don’t think this is about making the avoidant come around. It’s for you. Not them. If it doesn’t “work” that’s your sign to exit imo.
2026-05-04 19:37:25
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CK.GRUMPY :
"not going to accept feeling ignored" bro you are in control of your feeling, not then
2026-05-05 04:53:45
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LetsPlayMarioParty :
As an avoidant, I’d just call and end things. No need to drag it out. Have a nice life!
2026-05-04 23:45:06
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springbreak77 :
I’m unfortunately like this (I’m trying to change I swear) and these are perfect but won’t always work. Like they would compel me to leave my comfort zone for close friends but not for acquaintance friends
2026-05-04 15:19:01
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emily.monette :
I did this and he blocked me 🤷♀️
2026-05-04 12:49:30
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