No, you have to understand every situation that you are in, maybe he's not financially capable by that time? maybe he's really busy about school or maybe work? maybe he's planning something for months? maybe that next time was a surprise? don't be selfish. He's trying too, he's a human too.
2026-05-11 00:31:27
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lyxzieeeee :
“ I need to understand him, maybe he was struggling financially that time”. Last month I asked him to go out( simpleng nature trip or swimming). I don’t ask for expensive pools or beaches naman eh. May ikog naman here na malapit samin and para walang entrance fee, mag dala nalang din ng water and some bicuits or chichirya for bain para less gastos and pwede naman namin pag hatian yung gas since malapit lang naman. I asked him kung pwede kami mag outing like other couples do kasi i want to experience it naman and sabi nya wala syang pera that time and nag iipon pan sya para may pang hala kami. I understand naman, di ko pwedeng pilitin and may next time pa naman. Few days passed, I reminded him again about that and sabi nya is pinagpaplanohan nya palang daw. Okay ulit. Few days, weeks passed again but wala pa rin, kaya sabi ko na ako nalang bahala sa lahat ng gastos basta sumama lang sya basta matuloy lang kasi matagal naman na and wala pa ring natuloy. One day, nag sabi sya na mag sswimming sila sa isang resort kasama mga kaibigan nya at konting inuman. I can’t deny naman na nasaktan ako kasi andali dali nyang magawa sa friends nya pero pag sakin lagi may rason + yung tampo ko kasi may usapan kming sasamahan nya ako para bumili sa bayan pero mag isa nalang akong pumunta kasi nandon sya and di pa rin naman sya nag rereply. Inintindi ko nalang din kahit masakit kasi sabi nya may rason daw sya. Ilang weeks na naman ang nakalipas pinaalala ko ulit sakanya pero sabi nya pag dumating nalang daw mama nya galing abroad saka namin ituloy haha. Then isang araw nag outing na naman silang mag kakaibigan, gas lang daw meron sya and hiningi nya pa kay mama nya. Kaya naman pala gawin yan kahit gas lang ang gagastusan, kahit ako na gumastos bat pag sakin puro may rason? bat sakin di magawa?☹️Ilang beses nya ginawa sa mga kaibigan nya minsan di pa sya nag sasabi sakin kasi baka isipin ko daw na pag sakanila nagagawa nya tas pag sakin hindi haha yun naman na talaga yung point, mas dinadagdagan lang, nakakatampo sobra☹️.
2026-05-23 06:25:18
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VERONICA 🧑🍳 :
pinuntahan ko Yung lahat Ng Plano namin
2026-05-07 16:09:24
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️ :
i also experienced this, nauna akong mag aya ng samgy with her kasi namiss ko kumain sa labas kasama niya and she responded na "wala akong pera" i mean okay lang naman if ako ang gagastos kaso ang nakakaano dun day after ko siyang ayain nag aya bff's niya moa daw tas she responded immediately na "g ako jan gagawa ako paraan" wala lang, nafeel kolang yung "pag sa iba kaya, pag saakin hindi"
2026-05-12 06:55:45
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🤍 :
pagsa iba lagi natutuloy yung plano HAHAHA 😭
2026-06-09 14:43:58
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LALALALA :
napakaarte ng mga tao ngayon ang samang tingnan
2026-05-13 08:06:59
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thraia雪 :
i think yung point ni OP is may time sa iba, sa kanya wala. Go sa iba, pero sa kanya next time pa. gets niyo ba? basahin niyo rin kasi yung caption. napaghahalataan tayo dyan
2026-05-13 06:14:09
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joo 🔥 :
There’s this coffee spot I’ve always wanted to try. It was never even expensive, never something extravagant just a simple place I quietly hoped to experience with him someday. But deep down, I knew he was too ashamed to be seen with me there, maybe because too many of his past girls and flings already filled that place with memories before I ever could.
So last night, I finally went. Not with him, but with my cousin. And somehow, that alone became enough for him to make a fuss about it enough to end what we had. Funny how a café I only wanted to share with him became the very place that reminded me I was never something he was proud to claim in the first place.
2026-05-12 10:21:18
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Angel :
Baka naman short sa budget ate, h'wag natin inormalize yung ganito 'te, 'di naman siguro dapat agad-agad masusunod yung gusto natin, iconsider din natin yung partner natin, no hate, just saying.
2026-05-14 16:48:49
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Sane :
Depende pa rin sa situation yan. If yung tao is may financially problem or may pinaglalaanan importante dapat mas unawiin niyo. Wag kayo masyado Social Media standard at the same time hindi naman kayo standard na tao. If panget ang dahilan niya do’n na kayo mainis or ano pwede mo kakemihan gawin sa kanya. Again depende sa situation.
2026-05-12 11:52:02
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🧋 :
dati takot akong maging mag-isa, but now i love going and eating somewhere, all alone.
‘wag na, napuntahan na namin ng friend ko bwhahahaha
2026-05-10 08:19:04
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mae :
2026-05-10 10:05:21
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rarai. :
balakayo
2026-05-10 04:54:38
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S.zanie :
sakto sa nararamdaman ko ngayon ah
2026-05-24 14:24:05
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@brownie :
oh i remember,.yung pangako sakin na ilang taon na pupunta daw kami ng beach,sa wakas kapatid ko lang nakatupad. and yes 5yrs na yung pangako na yun. so nagegets ko yan.
2026-05-12 23:49:06
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nard Arzagi :
Yung gusto ko Siya dalhin sa lugar na gusto, pero wla ako magawa kundi tumanggi dahil kahit Ako hirap din sa buhay, nag working student ako kaya kailangan Araw Araw trabaho para ma secure pang hulog sa motor....kaya ayun pikit matang tinatanggihan siya kahit masakit, gusto ko dalhin Siya sa mga ganon Kasi happiness niya priority ko, pero wla eh kahit may motor sorry di kita madala sa mga gusto mong malalayo Kasi need talaga mag work:) ngayon wla sana masaya ikaw:)
2026-05-18 16:41:57
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mars 🦖 :
My boyfriend’s only words when I want something: “Game!”, “Tara na! Saan ba yon?”, “Ako na bahala don, Love.”, “Sige, puntahan natin.”, “Kung doon mo gusto, doon tayo.”
2026-05-12 23:11:04
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xhaexch 🍀 :
I understood the delays, but I could never understand why you went there with somebody else without me knowing. -2023
2026-05-11 16:31:12
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Bྀི⋆.˚ :
2026-05-08 12:16:38
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choco :
sorry, wala pang budget
2026-05-11 14:50:37
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fuck you with respect :
Yesss girl! My bf promised we'd have a date that day, but then he had an emergency cause his mom got admitted to the hospital. I'm disappointed cause it was supposed to be our date so i broke up with him after
2026-05-11 00:31:57
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mslwng :
Ways over excuses
2026-05-10 06:43:01
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Stephanie 👑 :
kaya ko na to 😁
2026-05-09 04:19:59
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