@bahatihildasabiti: When a child grows up without parents, they often grow up without a blueprint. No one to say “I’ve got you” when they failed. No one to show them love isn’t something you earn. So they become adults who people-please for safety. Who doubt themselves because no one ever mirrored their worth back to them. Lack of parenting isn’t just absence. It’s a missing foundation. It’s hard to feel confident when you never had solid ground to stand on. If you are the one I am talking about; this is for you..! You’re not damaged. You’re resilient. Now you get to become the parent you needed. You get to tell yourself: You matter. You’re safe. You don’t have to earn love anymore. #HappySunday
Not me, I am a total orphan since 13 years. The moment I realised that I have no father or mother figure to defend me except myself, I became very confident and bold, ready to defend myself at anytime and I also became self aware. Till now turning 30 years, I am very confident and I don’t tolerate nonsense, because I know, I don’t have anyone to defend me. I have never begged for attention or tried to do anything to please anyone, not in relationship or friendship or work place. Am sooo real. But it took me a lot of pain and disappointment to get to where I am.
2026-05-03 21:42:49
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Muhara Wa Mugisa 🕊️ :
Banange me I never grew with my both parents, but I express, I don't people-please, I have one problem... I move on like my life depends on it... I lack tolerance
2026-06-05 15:25:29
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Thierry pk :
very very true but they are loved by God so much that God hears their crying and they curry a lot of blessing
2026-06-03 21:27:12
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user6722725834137 :
this has always been my problem people pleasing
2026-05-03 18:15:57
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Bree :
I disagree with you totally
2026-05-11 15:42:15
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🩵💦brinky West#Niletiktiko💦 :
i don't know why am crying 😢😢😢😢
2026-05-03 20:45:17
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RIZQ :
now hv got to realize why people over use me😞😞😭😭
2026-05-04 06:29:21
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_ flo🦋✨🇺🇬 :
and there's me who grew up with my single dad and now I think the everything is mine I have to get it😂
2026-05-04 09:13:33
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Apple flower :
this is me and its very true
2026-06-05 08:16:53
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Princesses 👸 👒 :
I broke the cycle I just thank God it’s something I had to forgive my self and love my self so hard 🥰 cause people can use you a lot
2026-05-03 18:34:45
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Dinah :
Grew up with my mum but we were poor....often helped by church....i have realised i lack confidence....and can't build connections with older people because i take it that they will think i need help from them which isn't the case. Though i don't work too much to be accepted, i just put walls around myself.
2026-05-04 07:54:18
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OGA :
This is so personal
2026-05-20 03:46:13
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Change life :
No matter how much people you grew up with loved you,you will lack it
2026-05-03 17:52:11
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💜 :
yah true.
2026-05-16 08:38:35
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Lucky stars 🌟🌟 :
Mention my name and tell this to me direct please🥺
2026-05-29 17:16:04
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Talah Cards 🌺 :
😭😭😭😭 we go through a people pleasing phase
2026-05-03 17:43:22
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Nantumbwe sylivia :
very true and when it comes to relationships we love deeply and we end up taken for granted 💔 😪
2026-05-04 01:47:23
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LiANPRINTS🖱️ :
This has now made sense to me😒 I grew up seeking for validation ilidation
2026-05-03 12:49:16
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Ack Shine +256788796319 :
God should surely look in to that🤗🤗🤗.let every child grow up with their parents.
2026-05-03 12:13:12
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certified inlaw✨️ :
stop making me feel guilty🥹
2026-05-08 19:01:54
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Autovon :
This is true but the reverse is not true
2026-06-02 08:37:55
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sarahfamilywardrobe :
So, what's the solution for that
2026-05-04 08:20:24
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Rwats :
I disagree
2026-05-13 18:59:32
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namulindwa :
i've grown up with both parents and everything that is explained in that video 😭 so i don't know what y'all are saying
2026-05-07 16:13:13
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