theelliebarker
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Lils ꨄ :
In my family it’s called “your supposed to”
2026-05-05 12:59:41
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𝓚𝓮𝓵𝓼𝓮𝔂 :
In my family it’s called bare minimum to do this
2026-05-05 02:04:49
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bluee33 :
oh... wrong side of the internet
2026-06-04 10:04:02
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J.Millz :
College followed by a successful career is an expectation, not a goal in my family
2026-05-07 08:28:30
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⚡️⚡️⚡️ :
it’s so weird when i try to celebrate achievements? feels like im hyping up breathing it feels so performative
2026-05-26 02:58:16
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Oreo !! 🐙🐇 :
ikr. like. proud of me for what?? so you wouldn't be disappointed??
2026-05-03 20:31:13
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elisa.x :
in my case, it's a goal i set to surpass them, to show them and prove them wrong.
2026-05-03 19:38:10
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Sydney :
In my family it’s called “you can do better.”
2026-05-05 17:52:21
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howtoadoulthood :
This happens to a lot of people, and they pick it up from their families. When there’s a failure, it brings a lot of pain and discomfort. When there’s a success, there’s no celebration, at best, just a slight sense of relief that it’s over. It’s worth really working through this with a therapist.
2026-05-12 14:38:31
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🌿casi :
every time i achive something im just relieved it's over and then i move on and stress about the next thing
2026-05-31 15:03:35
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Marie08 :
So break that toxic cycle and celebrate yourself
2026-05-06 01:13:02
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Yo Girl AM :
You can be proud, damn
2026-05-05 18:14:14
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R Y :
Same. I’m a lawyer and when people say “your parents must be proud,” I just say “well, my brothers a doctor😂”
2026-05-12 18:15:20
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c7237414 :
raised in the exact opposite. there are no goals hence nothing to reach or to be proud of
2026-05-23 23:55:07
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Main_ternet :
the way that my parents celebrated by graduation more than I did 💀
2026-05-15 09:56:22
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Mads :
To be seen
2026-06-03 17:49:29
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서화 :
arti (for Indonesian people): Ketika seseorang mengatakan bahwa aku seharusnya bangga pada diriku sendiri, tetapi aku tumbuh di keluarga di mana menetapkan tujuan dan kemudian berupaya mencapainya adalah hal yang normal.
2026-05-14 08:03:19
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dr baby :
yes… achieve your goals… and celebrate along the way when you reach them… be proud of yourself… and continue to succeed
2026-05-05 16:03:41
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Emppu88 :
That's what goals are for??
2026-05-21 09:25:57
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Syd 💓 :
I felt nothing when I graduated with my bachelors. Didn’t even have a celebration till I received my masters degree. 😭
2026-05-07 16:01:00
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K07K07K07 :
how it should be fr
2026-05-03 17:22:50
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cassidy.v.1314 :
Me getting my masters like 🤷♀️
2026-05-05 05:15:47
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Sean black :
That is sad
2026-05-27 00:29:48
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