@thechrishinton: Most people aren’t in love… they’re attached. Learn the difference before your wounds run your relationships. #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyles #datingadvice #traumabond #emotionalintelligence
"You say you love someone but you don't even protect them from you" I gasped. Damn... 😳
2026-05-03 17:48:13
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Onyx 🧿 :
I've been in love but I've never had anyone been in love with me 😭
2026-05-05 21:07:15
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will.i.am :
k give me a sec I'll come back
2026-05-03 18:08:29
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Lynn-Sarah :
Until one day, you’re not living your life anymore, you’re living your story.
2026-05-04 04:19:04
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dontlookup :
I was taught that love is a verb. It's not a feeling. It's something you DO for someone. You LOVE them. It's an action word. A feeling is a noun. You FEEL sadness or happiness or loneliness, these are nouns.
2026-05-07 03:16:24
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VALERIE SWANN 🦢 :
Sir, you have no idea how advanced this information is… and we got it for free, thank you 🙏 I *did* cry 😭 but I listened to the whole thing
2026-05-03 18:28:07
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K💓 :
Give me a minute,I’m processing this.wow
2026-05-03 18:23:25
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AnaIvan :
Love is giving without expecting anything in return. And if you find someone who does the same for you, then you have a beautiful life. But you must also be happy on your own, simply by giving.
2026-05-10 05:47:29
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Katelyn :
What a beautiful explanation. I hope this helps those who are still “loving” from attachment/trauma open their eyes. Learning to love myself and removing the shame and guilt I’ve always felt about myself is what has helped me with being able to recognize what is truly love. This fear we have is our body begging us to learn how to truly love ourselves first and not seek it from others.
2026-05-07 19:22:05
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Saad :
So when love you think about other people's happiness and you are happy, it doesn't matter if it includes you or not... it's pure altruism 🦋 and when you are attached you only desire your own happiness, pure selfishness… quite profound . Thank you, gentlemen.
2026-05-03 17:43:15
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Kim Benjamin :
This hit me hard. Thank you for defining love vs attachment. I finally get it. The true definition of healing and the story we tell ourselves and how it affects our relationships. Wow! I’m also adopted. And everything you said explains my last relationship to a tee- the intensity, the controlling behavior, the need for reassurance. Not just from my perspective but from his too, quite dramatically in fact. And sadly he’ll never hear your words and do the work to understand and be aware so he can change. I’m so grateful for your lesson here. Now to get to work, observe my feelings to figure out who’s talking, and hopefully find true love rather than just being attached. To start, I’ve downloaded your book. Thank you! 🙏 Maybe I can join the June workshop in Denver too.
2026-05-04 13:21:49
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Moemoeknows :
"love is how you show up, not what you keep"
2026-05-09 15:04:53
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Cystum :
So it truly was love, I couldn’t tell because they kept telling me I was attached to them.
2026-06-04 09:39:18
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theblackbadge :
“Love doesn’t fight to exist.”
2026-05-15 18:59:57
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Mike Hunter :
I have a friend in a trauma bond exactly what you’re saying here
2026-05-29 20:25:45
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h3artchuuu :
But isn’t your partner suppose to be able to give you that reassurance? You are asking your partner for reassurance cause you feel safe with them…
2026-05-23 09:31:46
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Stralert :
one of the most profound things I've heard wow
2026-05-21 21:08:50
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Ferrewings :
Beautifully stated!!
2026-05-07 21:16:58
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Britt K :
Thank you for sharing this makes a lot of sense
2026-06-02 19:50:06
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SaltySuthernHeart :
so much truth in this... I need to journal it out💙Thank you!!!
2026-05-10 03:38:48
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Technavores Corner :
I've had so many relationships that went sour but this is my first one where for once, it's healthy. for once my trauma is not guilding me. And for once, it's love
2026-05-09 23:46:12
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Dayana :
Can you have both..
2026-05-04 21:37:58
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Jamie's world🌎| TTS FINDS :
i've learned that dealing with your own wounds make you see how much others are hurting......
2026-05-07 03:11:12
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Nicole Phillips :
GOD TAKE CHARGE AMEN 🥰
2026-05-17 19:12:07
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Chell0586 :
I go into a zone of nothingness when people yell at me now
2026-05-09 08:18:42
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