@the_control_code: The biggest killer of women you’ve never heard of. It’s the leading predictor of being murdered by your partner. One of the strongest drivers of female suicide. And it’s running underneath the chronic illness, the autoimmune flares, the complex PTSD that’s rewriting who she is. Coercive control isn’t a category of bad relationship. It’s a kill mechanism with more than one way of finishing the job. 99% of women killed by their partners were living under coercive control before he killed them. (Monckton Smith, 2020) 1 in 8 female suicides in the UK linked to domestic abuse. (Walby) Citations in bio. #coercivecontrol #intimatepartnerviolence #lethality #thecontrolcode #BookTok

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allgirlsfall
allGirlsFall :
Thank you for addressing this. Even though I left, the coercive control continues due to having kids together. Currently wearing a heart monitor due to the stress of dealing with this.
2026-05-04 00:07:25
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violetirisak
VioletirisAK :
Does this apply to father-daughter coercive control? Because I relate a lot to this in regards to that relationship dynamic
2026-05-05 22:03:26
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chey.guyy
Chey :
Oh so I guessed “men”
2026-08-26 21:52:01
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joanburg1960
Joan 🇨🇦 :
Unfortunately no one believes me 🥺
2026-05-04 22:29:39
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cathlinerivera
cathlinerivera :
Ulcerative Colitis! I was always inflamed!
2026-06-24 13:54:33
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athena_in_flesh
✨️HeatherLynn :
lindsay clancy
2026-08-12 16:42:33
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spiderwebbk
spiderwebbk :
I had horrible chronic migraines when I was married. As soon as I left, migraines are few and far between.
2026-05-09 07:06:53
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whatev4ever
Kayleigh Cooper & Penny :
I have heart failure
2026-05-08 08:06:59
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crishamcm
LC :
wow😭 I have to get out ive gotten to where I cant even get out of bed
2026-06-18 21:32:52
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mello.yeloow
mello.yeloow :
I’m not sure if I experienced this or if I’m just the problem
2026-06-17 15:18:08
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skyhighshelby
Shelby :
I had a heart attack. SCAD
2026-06-23 17:32:31
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meatispartvegetable_2
B👁️tch :
I find it ironic that this super important and helpful video is glitching for me.
2026-06-25 23:42:00
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girlidiot33
max! :
Anyone reading this know you are loved for who you are and if you need anyone to talk to I’m always here ❤️
2026-05-09 04:06:35
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janessahenigan
Nessiekins :
Sylvia Plath 🥺💔
2026-05-06 17:50:44
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bowiethefrenchie
BowieTheFrenchie :
Thank you for your content. It is so important and validating.
2026-05-05 23:58:37
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jewelsspark
JewelsSpark :
Im 3 days into the TPO I was granted 💜💜💜
2026-05-04 03:12:54
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jessicaann0320
Jessica Cansler :
cPTSD, insomnia, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Fibromyalgia, migraines, and I've had at least one TIA (mini stroke).
2026-06-25 19:34:05
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ravelm1
Raven Moon :
You are helping a lot of women with this post. I needed to see this.
2026-06-18 20:53:08
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missivyjo406
Ivy Sehulster :
Thank you. I appreciate you.
2026-05-04 00:35:06
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beautifulchaos65
Beautiful Chaos 65 :
I thought I had Gerd and chronic headaches. 3 years out and those are gone plus no more insomnia. Still a long way to go yet I see my health getting better
2026-06-23 21:57:58
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samaram1841
samaram :
I ca attest to that, 10 years after surviving that relationship and I developed autoimmune issues
2026-05-13 02:58:06
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ferdinand_the_elf
Ferdinand and Irina :
the more i learn about it, the more i realize how messed up my situation was... thank you for educating!
2026-06-24 21:10:24
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woman.of.havoc
Woman of Havoc :
What type of therapy do you recommend to heal all of the chronic health issues after leaving?
2026-05-05 00:55:53
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