I ask my husband when I sense he's mad he says "yes, but it has nothing to do with you my love". He even lightens his tone to convince me 😭😭😭
2026-05-07 02:37:59
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derek o neill :
scary how real this is!
2026-05-04 18:20:14
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justanotherperson0101 :
This side of tiktok has taught me so much about myself and far more messed up than I really thought I was. I swear all I do is cry on this app.
2026-05-06 13:59:02
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Valery :
This made me cry 😭
2026-05-05 19:36:32
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𝓓𝓮𝓷𝓷𝓳𝓼 𝓥𝓪𝓼𝓺𝓾𝓮𝔃 :
This is true, but at the same time, we can’t constantly place our emotional trauma on our partner and expect nonstop reassurance. We also have to do the inner work ourselves and rewire our mindset so we can heal and move forward. Otherwise, we’ll always end up dependent on someone else for validation and reassurance.
2026-05-07 22:25:06
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Victoria Anne Shelton :
I have trauma from my last relationship, im constantly asking my now partner if hes okay, are we okay, I used to say sorry a lot for no reason, I still shut down in arguments or cry, always think everything is my fault. ive been out of my previous 12 years and still feel like im that small person 😔
2026-05-06 07:23:51
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sickviscera :
I hate that I’m like this
2026-05-08 18:23:44
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Mush :
my god. who is this goddess?
2026-05-04 21:52:29
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Emma McGuinness :
My husband had helped me heal
2026-05-04 22:14:35
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Gretel Reyes-Pelayo :
I’ve learned to mask sooo incredibly good that even my loved ones never know when I’m not okay, but even I don’t know it myself sometimes either 🥺
2026-05-05 13:10:27
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Natkat :
This is 100% accurate. I'm almost 39 and I am still dealing with this. 😩
2026-05-07 15:44:03
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Anthony Rocha :
I broke down realizing this is my girl and here I am frustrated that she is this way and instead of me helping I made her feel bad for bringing that baggage with her my biggest flaws patients and grace 😞
2026-05-07 16:09:52
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Hey_Prisci :
PTSD is so real. Working through the trauma to become the best me in the world. Not for anyone but for me
2026-05-07 15:51:35
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✨Ms. Ashley✨ :
I’m in tears… I feel so seen 🥹😭
2026-05-08 06:55:39
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Fashion Haul Sisters 🇳🇱 :
This hit home ❤️
2026-05-05 09:11:55
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Marysary :
This is so true 😞
2026-05-06 19:30:38
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Eli :
so true 🤩
2026-05-03 23:35:30
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TheHolyOne :
this ❤️
2026-05-04 02:02:52
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Peggy :
Their asking "Am I OK".
2026-05-07 13:24:06
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Q :
wow...this is me.
2026-05-06 17:38:46
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Przemek Wardęga :
Omg, it is so me, asking all the time if all is ok….cant stop this, never knew why…
2026-05-05 17:54:03
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TxPapi :
Spot on!!!!!
2026-05-04 17:44:15
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moe2 :
amen
2026-05-04 01:05:47
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bazza4778 :
This is me , I am always asking to see if she is ok , thankfully I get the reassurance. Childhood was constantly monitoring the moods .
2026-05-05 10:20:22
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liquid chemistry :
she's a smart lady
2026-05-05 08:23:13
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