@alexander_dahlgren_jawad: In 1955 Diana Vreeland told legendary decorator Billy Baldwin she wanted her living room to look like a garden — but a garden in hell. He searched for an eternity before finding exactly the right material in John Fowler's shop in London. Scarlet chintz with brilliant Persian flowers. He raced home with yards of it and covered the entire room. Walls, curtains, furniture, the works. The room held Venetian blackamoors, porcelain leopards, horn snuffboxes from Scotland, brass fish, a plaster cast of her mother, needlepoint pillows she stitched herself, a crocheted afghan, and a rattan chair that belonged on a patio. No relationship between any of it. No curatorial logic. Every single thing was there because she loved it. She ran Harper's Bazaar for 26 years and then ran Vogue. She defined fashion for a generation. And her home looked nothing like fashion. That room remained essentially unchanged for 34 years. She didn't redecorate. She didn't follow trends. She lived in a garden in hell for three and a half decades because she got it right the first time. Trends are consensus. Style is singular. The link is in my bio. #interiordesign #homedesign #designphilosophy #timelessdesign #interiordesignadvice #homerenovation
Alexander Dahlgren-Jawad
Region: US
Monday 04 May 2026 03:17:53 GMT
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Mary :
I heard a designer say “if you surround yourself with things that make you happy, your style will come out of that” and you’ve just proved that
2026-05-04 23:39:28
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bseditor1 :
the best compliment I've ever gotten on my home (and the only one I want) is, "it's so you"
2026-05-04 12:12:38
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Heidi Brunk-Bull :
Temu Dorothy Draper here 🙋♀️. When my husband asked, I said “imagine if PeeWee Herman & Cyndi Lauper did a colab.” Thats my bedroom.
2026-05-04 10:33:45
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AKAli :
Matisse-like?
2026-05-04 21:07:56
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JDMae :
My only rule is I have to like it. Somehow because I like everything I put in my space, it all works—for me.
2026-05-04 03:57:32
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Emma :
Several years ago a coworker and I were talking and she was showing me a golden dragon shaped bathroom faucet and a blue vanity she'd found online and was sad because "Well what about resale?" and I was like, "J, you've lived in this town your entire life and in your house for 15 years. Are you planning to leave sometime soon?"
And she said, "Well no, I love it here." so I told her, "OK then why does resale matter? Decorate how you like."
And I could see the joy in her eyes as that sunk in. I believe that rediculous dragon bathroom faucet was bought and installed within 6 months of that conversation.
2026-05-04 22:25:29
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RSS :
Seriously tell me why I started tearing up listening to this. THIS is what it’s all about. Your home. Your space. It took 7 years for me to settle on a starting point design for the primary bedroom, my husband hated it (he hates everything until it’s done) - it’s his favorite room. People come in an dare to say ‘I don’t really like it.’ Cool Barbara - I do - guess it’s a good thing it’s not your room.
2026-05-14 00:54:51
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Catzies :
Your brooch is stunning
2026-05-04 03:38:55
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Kayla :
that wondrous brooch along with the green in the ring, and the blue of the ring along with the blue of your shirt, balanced with those frames and the cardigan?? stunning.
2026-06-30 03:50:13
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tex_kat1 :
You've made me feel so much better about my design aesthetic! I'm all over the place with my decor. I buy what I like and it doesn't fit any design type.
2026-06-28 15:19:09
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Travis :
Iconic
2026-05-17 03:00:23
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High Priestess of Vengeance :
My daughter when she saw my completed renovation for the first time: don’t take this the wrong way, mom, but it looks like you don’t care what anyone else thinks. Correct.
2026-05-08 00:18:08
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GI Robot Bestie :
"you may not recognize most of these names..." of course I do! am I just old?? lol.
2026-05-04 06:38:46
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AlliOop :
I always feel so much better about my house after watching your videos 🥰
2026-05-04 23:18:06
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RoseyTries :
“But with style and real talent” 😂😂
2026-05-05 16:40:05
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void :
We've lived in this house 4 years. the only major change we've made so far is tongue and groove on the living room ceiling. And I love it everytime I look at it.
2026-05-09 18:25:17
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Ellen Kirkendall :
I don’t care that my kitchen is dated. So am I
2026-05-06 15:06:38
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aumann619 :
When you said Diana and Billy I knew I found my people 🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-16 23:20:20
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Christine :
I love my home, it has no style. It’s mine have no interest in changing it.
2026-05-04 10:22:04
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I could tell :
I don't want to build a house for resale. I want it to be a house I can age in. I'm fine going against trend. but I'm terrified that I'll be bored with my home in 10 years and I won't be able to adapt it or grow with it without redoing it! how do you stay the same person for 35 years???
2026-05-05 13:31:25
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Zach Mauer :
Loved this — one of my fav videos of yours so far! 💖
2026-05-05 00:07:09
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Miss Red AK :
Fashion is not style. So true! My rule to decorating my home is it has to make me smile. I always ask when looking for art, home decor or clothes I ask myself "does this make me smile". If not I move on.
2026-05-04 07:39:33
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brenda mcmillen :
Fashion is not style. ❤️
2026-05-04 12:04:22
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Tyler Seguin’s Duck 📚 :
Your videos seem to pop up when I need them. I was thinking about getting rid of certain decor because it didn’t fit in my home. I won’t. I’ll keep them. 💚💚
2026-05-04 06:50:12
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Sabina Miller :
I couldn’t help but remember the NY apartment in Auntie Mame. I loved that movie bc of her constant living room changes. That was so chic to me at the time. The changes.
2026-05-04 18:20:00
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