avaluvspoprocks :
listen girlies, if you have to compete w/ his gbsf for his attention, or he ignores you when she’s with him or on call with him or even texting him, he’s not your man, he’s hers. & 99% of the time the gbsf likes the guy, or the guy starts showing feels for the gbsf when with you. If you don’t like that there touchy or talking a lot like more then you and him, communicate with him about it, and if you have to argue over something as stupid as that for hours w/o him saying they’ll stop and he’s defending the gbsf, thats not being respectful of your boundaries and he should go. Plus, the gbsf should take a step BACK when your man gets in a relationship, otherwise thats totally disrespectful and NOT okay. Listen to your gut always. My man has a gbsf and whenever I bring up the gbsf and how I’m suspecting she likes him, he says “im sorry but if that were to happen it would’ve happened awhile ago” like does he not understand that feelings can change? I’m talking to him about it tomorrow since he’s at a friends house, but it’s causing so much mental stress on my part it’s not even worth it. YOU & I should be his gbsf, because why does he need any other girl in his life other than you? He doesn’t need a woman to satisfy him other than you, if he has problems he should talk about it with you, if he is upset or sad or angry or happy or stressed
2026-07-19 03:58:44