@sabidoodl:

soma ༄ //dm for comms :

Is he still your bf?…

trey :

This is like hypothetically right

BIGDMG :

Oddly specific

Glen Ramalloza :

I’d say it’s the lack of emotionally maturity and awareness. Youre not responsible to change them but mentioning it over and over can only go so far. Wwyd? Communicate and regroup. Some patches can be fixed and some aren’t. Pick which unfixable patches you’ll be able to live with.

_waterburger_ :

So tbh I would consider leaving😭

Brandon Braithwaite :

I suck at reading lips, but once I got it my immediate thought was where is sympathy. Why did it leave the chat when it was needed most. I see both sides to this but the main focus should be on you at the time

Capricorn_Knight :

I would reevaluate the relationship and communicate what he did and how he made me feel. Then I would take some time apart for him to reflect, if nothings changed them I would leave. You can't change someone unwilling and unable, and you partner shouldn't be making you feels unsafe.

Grayson :

it’s really incredible how hard it is to just listen. like acknowledging that they’re not sure of the best way to comfort you is fine if they didn’t make it about themselves😭

Chameleon :

how long have you had this issue?

tojifushiguro :

what did she say yall it starts with an s

joemomma :

skysdreamz :

I've never been in a relationship before, i have experience this sort of thing and I personally don't know what i would do, but all I can say is, I'm sorry and things like this we need someone who would listen and try to offer advice or comfort not making things about themselves, I hope things are better for you now and remember everything's going to be okay, I'm praying for you Sabrina.

Instante :

Not that keeping a “scoreboard” is the right thing, but definitely part of the checklist for lack of better words. You just started seeing the cracks of relationships and reevaluating the long term partner. You just kind of see that up to here we go. Then theirs the other option to communicate it all and hope that it doesn’t happen again or that it’s better handled. But me personally I’d rip off the bandaid sort of speak with arm and all if needed.

dksksj :

i need to finish

Steven Anboussi :

Make sure that he wasn't my bf by the end of the night

SergLinn :

Just marry ur bf nd yes, its that simple

anddrizzle :

💙💙💙💙