Jefferson Fisher
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Tuesday 05 May 2026 18:15:56 GMT
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Life Unhinged :
As an adult boy mom….I can only imagine how proud your mother must be of you. Your wisdom is timeless.
2026-05-05 22:08:16
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LizNav_67 🇵🇷GEN ❌ :
18 years of paper cuts ended up in divorce for me.
2026-05-05 20:11:36
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Selah Threads :
That is probably the single-handed best phrase I’ve ever heard. Immediately calm, the nervous system.
2026-06-27 22:35:53
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Ranting Ruthie :
In our home when we're making big decisions we like to say if it's not two yesses it's a no.
2026-05-05 18:58:56
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Thornhazel :
My hubby drew a “line in the sand” early on when we started dating. He made it clear that we will not go to bed angry or if anything upsets me, I should tell him because he is not a mind reader. He set up a way for us to communicate, we call it an open conversation, where we sit down and discuss what is troubling us in a respectful manner. Whomever initiated the conversation states what the issue is, how it makes them feel or how it’s affecting our relationship from their perspective. Then the recipient of the conversation, should take a few hours, days or weeks (maximum a month) to mull it over and think about what was said. Then the recipient reopens the conversation and discuss from their perspective. Sometimes we’d bring note books with or spreadsheets or whatever the situation needs to support or provide for the conversation. Then we talk things out, sometimes this might take a few breaks of backwards and forwards of opening the conversation, depending what it is about. We never argue, we do bicker about the small stuff or do get snippy about them and we do sort it out. But the big stuff that effects each individual in the relationship is taken seriously. It works for us, but over the past 18 years, it’s made us stronger and I believe we both feel heard and loved. So sometimes when I just respond “it’s fine” he just stares at me, then I have to ensure him it doesn’t mean we are not fine or I’m just saying it because I want to keep the peace 😅. It was so weird when we started this, but I love him more because of how thoughtful and considerate he is to me. Sometimes it’s the little things that makes a big impact too. Like I would say I e.g. I am running low on my foundation & need to get more soon. During his lunch break he would go buy me some & surprise me with it that evening. Like he would leave his lunch container on the kitchen bench and when you move it, behind it the foundation was hidden. Yes I update his notes on his phone on what I want or use etc.😅
2026-05-08 16:50:57
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hoebedoelje.be :
Theres a difference between I don't want to lose you and I don’t want to hurt you.
2026-05-06 07:42:27
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Randal Reagh :
Wonderful advice I used it. Love and light
2026-05-06 03:12:11
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Theta Mind :
try to smooth out negative feelings the sooner the better
2026-05-05 19:35:20
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socializer :
naisu
2026-05-11 13:54:18
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Carol Hess965 :
Great advice!
2026-05-05 23:56:38
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Jilljilljill :
Going to keep this tip in my back pocket💕💕💕.
2026-05-05 18:33:25
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looceeloo :
😂😂😂
2026-05-06 05:32:19
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Lauren :
💛💛💛
2026-05-06 03:39:05
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Has Al :
👍
2026-05-05 19:19:08
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Kitshackelford :
💗💗💗
2026-05-05 18:58:35
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red :
🌹
2026-05-07 14:36:53
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B’Anka (B+Anchor) :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-08 02:20:22
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