Some of us actually try to help ourselves. Yall make us seem so evil
2026-06-12 21:15:01
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AngelLex98 :
Yeah well maybe because I tried to voice my needs calmly and was ignored I stopped being nice about it
2026-06-16 13:37:10
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e.th.4n_ :
It was never about hurting them just to hurt them. It was always about hurting them so they could feel how I felt. (I don’t do this anymore, better communication, but I know at least one person can relate)
2026-06-13 11:00:10
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Larrssa :
I hate you, don’t leave me 💔
2026-06-14 20:57:48
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Gabby :
It’s not screaming and yelling, a lot of the time it’s silent rage and isolating with no reason
2026-06-03 19:37:50
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Riss 🪽 :
It’s a trauma response & it’s possible to heal from 💯 inner child healing. I’m living proof :) I wish everyone healing!
2026-06-09 16:56:43
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Nurse Zia BSN. RN :
Or they internalize it and shut down stone wall and give the silent treatment
2026-06-10 22:42:17
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💫Joanna :
Don't trigger me, and don't hurt me. Don't do to me what you wouldn't like to be done to you thats all i guess
2026-06-09 22:38:47
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Nikki🖤 :
This has to be the worst description of bpd I’ve ever heard
2026-06-14 12:33:59
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JSS :
It’s to the point that I just isolate and do life all on my own. Not dragging any person into this to protect them and myself.
2026-05-30 18:43:33
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oliviaanextdoorr :
It’s not even just abandonment it can be perceived disrespect, judgment, animosity and so many other things that trigger this response.
2026-06-08 23:27:19
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🪷 :
I’ve ruined every relationship in my life because of this
2026-06-05 21:20:27
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aus_reef222 :
This will only happen if you’re around a Narcissist. Someone who wants you to react to how they’re treating you. Once you identify the culprit, you can control how you respond. But keep it to yourself, get away & find your exit strategy.
2026-06-13 06:42:57
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꧁•⊹ DREAMKEEPER ⊹•꧂ :
there are 256 types of BPD.
NO WAY do ALL BPD ppl set out to hurt tell or scream at people. some internalise or so deeply to the point of death.
2026-06-09 01:18:53
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Prettygurl💙💛🖤 :
I have bpd and I watch videos and read about my condition all the time, and it will never make sense to me.
2026-06-03 07:29:33
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Gemma’sCrystalDream🌛🔮 :
Not always true i have silent bpd if i think abandonment is going to happen i hurt myself by talking unkindly to myself. I need constant reassurance they wont leave me
2026-06-13 16:12:50
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Elder Goose 🧸 :
It’s not always screaming and yelling. It also can be internal where the person destroys themselves instead of others
2026-06-10 21:34:17
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ricka362 :
we don't think we just do then reflect afterwards
2026-06-07 02:41:29
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Heathen_Heather💀 :
It's not always screaming and yelling but when they are triggered, in those moments all ties are severed. There is no love there and they will do or say anything to cut them down and hurt them like they've hurt us.
2026-06-04 14:29:16
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J75 :
My current girlfriend told me when we first met that she had BPD. We both wanted our relationship to succeed, so we did our part. I read books and listened to podcasts to understand her better. She increased her therapy and focused on DPT therapy. There have been ups and downs but definitely more ups. Educating myself has helped me so much to understand how she thinks. We have been together for 1 year and plan to get married next year.❤️What I’m trying to say is, your person will put in the work to understand you. Don’t lose hope, your person is out there.
2026-06-15 13:20:14
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Rain :
I've never desired to hurt someone who's hurt me though
2026-06-11 18:14:46
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🍂🪶ₛₒₘₑₜₕᵢₙG ᵣₑₚᵣₑₛₛₑD🪶🍂 :
My sisters not BPD but she’s very easily aggravated, offended, and angered, I have no idea what to do some days. I love my sister but it feels like walking into a bear trap every time I try to get close to her again.
2026-06-15 14:06:56
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shadows.talking :
It's not just abandonment
2026-06-03 02:14:12
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