@brianaksmith: It’s ok that you didn’t know that you were gay. It’s time to listen to what your body has been trying to tell you. I promise she’s not leading your towards harm. #lateinlifelesbian #comingout #lateinlifelesbiansupport #comingoutsupport #sexuality

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florr19933
Florr :
Damn this was so helpful thank you
2026-05-06 11:47:24
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intheprocessofbecoming1
Vanessa :
I recently disclosed this to my therapist. I’m 36.
2026-06-04 21:00:29
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lawsmull
Laura .m :
was meant to watch this video today
2026-05-13 08:54:15
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benitaneale
Benita Neale :
Needed this
2026-06-09 14:58:16
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amandaslife__
𝚊𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚊❤︎🏳️‍🌈 :
Thank you so much for this. I’m in tears and I needed to hear this.
2026-05-29 19:50:23
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roy01862
roy :
what make you happy counts being open helps it's not easy
2026-05-06 21:57:45
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intheprocessofbecoming1
Vanessa :
I have no idea how to navigate this
2026-06-04 21:00:46
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leannekelly72
Leanne :
Needed this 🥰
2026-06-04 11:29:55
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zestypeapod
Alyyy :
I appreciate this reassurance. I am still trying to figure out if sexually I’m bi but romantically have a preference for women… or if I’m just gay and still not able to fully wrap my head around it and accept what it means for my future. I lean towards the former, which makes it feel ever harder to navigate the path to leaving my marriage (harder to justify, esp with kids). We’ve discussed ethical non-monogamy, and in spirit he’s supportive but when the reality set in when I started experimenting, we both realized long term it would be too hard on him (he doesn’t want to be with other people). All of this just really triggers my deepest wounds: being misunderstood, feeling torn and confused, feeling like no matter what I choose people are hurt and everything is my fault. The limbo is torture 😭
2026-05-06 03:33:18
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on.a.walk49
On A Walk :
Yes. Married for 25 years with eight children. I always thought I was bisexual. Now, I'm confident that I am lesbian. Thank you for saying this. I feel like I'm in lesbian kindergarten🥴
2026-05-10 20:27:35
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_riccu0
Kaymae :
Did you get really ill during it? I feel I’m physically never going to recover. It’s been two years of emotional turmoil and now I’m so sick
2026-05-07 21:31:05
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kapayapaan100
Villa🦋 :
We should have a group meet up on this. Who wants to start?😁
2026-06-05 13:46:26
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blackchamomile171
Wiktoria Chmielowska :
29 and I thought I was bi but naah
2026-05-08 11:21:26
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cheryl.amsterdam2024
Cheryl#Netherlands_Amsterdam :
🤔 yeah
2026-05-12 21:49:45
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20_roos
rosa :
I hate this feeling
2026-05-12 03:22:41
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kyradobson1
Ms. Kyra :
I left my partner for many reasons outside of realizing my queerness, we were together for 10 years and had a one year old at the time together. After that whole year of post-partum, many issues and red flags that I was ignoring, it finally clicked for me that I was gay. The hardest part is my ex hating it and resenting me for it when I want a positive co-parenting relationship and my parents icing me out.. it’s been the hardest but most beautiful time. But this flipped my world upside down, I’m still reeling from it. I don’t know how to move forward when I feel I have one foot stuck in my old life and one foot begging to keep going..
2026-06-02 04:28:50
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ecaep33
Ecaep33 :
I've just come out to my best friend and it went okay. was worried as he came out to me a while ago and didn't want him to think I was taking away from that or 'jumping on the bandwagon'. but he mentioned he assumed I was an ally (not sure how spell that) so I explained I'm not and it was okay
2026-06-06 22:26:18
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caipnggg
meow :
😁😁😁
2026-05-08 16:45:49
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chloecope2
Chloe Cope :
❤️❤️
2026-05-06 14:45:28
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albion200as
albion200as :
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
2026-05-06 09:42:55
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ladyd3076
Donna🏳️‍🌈 :
I've been out for 40 years. I suspected I was a lesbian in my teens. I went to church to pray the gay away. It didn't work. I kept getting crushes and feelings for girls, not guys. By the time I was 21 or 22, I had a choice to make. Live the lie and marry a man or accept who I am and come out. I chose to come out. I could not lie to myself and I knew I would not be happy with a man. I didn't fall in love until I was 27 years old, and it was with a woman. I never got feelings for any guy I dated. I cared about them, but I never fell in love with them. For me, it isn't just about sexual attraction, it is an emotional and spiritual connection. I only feel that for women. It takes courage to come out. It doesn't matter if you do it in your 20's or your 50's. I feel for you ladies in the comment section who are struggling with this. What made me to decide to come out in my 20's was, I accepted who I was, and could not live a lie. To thine one self self be true😊😊❤️❤️
2026-05-06 12:03:50
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pinki4793
Pinki 🇿🇦 :
it's time you ladies should think about yourself first for a change. once you triglycerides fall in love with a women, you will feel everything is totally worth it and much easier when you are in love. we all want to experience deep.meeningfull love before we pass at least once. doesn't matter if with a male or female, give your body and brain what it wants, you will find another level of love. that's the ultimate goal in life
2026-05-06 10:50:29
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n3ssxp
Ness :
Im afraid im gaslighting myself into being into women but I have zero interest in men anymore and I can’t see myself date a man again. But I can see myself with a woman and im only attracted to women so idc. What if I say im bi or gay but im not
2026-06-17 19:33:56
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