I may firm believer in protecting your peace. You did the right thing.
2026-05-06 23:54:16
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Earned Over Excuses :
You're one of the most stand up guys around Former! Proud to call you friend!
2026-05-06 23:52:52
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npzas :
hey man, i also care for my brother, not even close to your level, as my dad is still in the picture (my brother is my half brother from my dad's previous marraige), and he has muscular distrofy, I dont know how to spell it, and its hard, but you did good, good job 👍
2026-06-07 05:37:07
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goldenkiwisurprise :
You absolutely did the right thing. You did more than your fair share of taking care of him and doing what you could to ensure that he thrived. Your love is clear to see, and your sacrifice was more than enough. He’s made his choice now, and you’re allowed to protect your peace. You don’t owe him or your mother anything. 💛
2026-05-07 00:14:41
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JimmytheDragon :
I totally understand your views here. I feel you did best for everyone with your decisions despite them not being easy. Much love
2026-05-06 23:45:54
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topherr4 :
appreciate your openness bro. as someone who’s going through some family stuff right now with my dad i really respect those who take on the full caretaker role. thank you for sharing your story. i’m sorry things worked out they way they did.
2026-05-06 23:49:09
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Paige Taylor💕 :
Family doesn’t always mean forever, you chose to respect his choices and your own peace. There’s nothing wrong with that ❤️You’re an amazing person and just because you don’t talk now doesn’t discredit everything you ever did for him. I’m sorry to hear his health is declining. That’s hard even if you don’t talk. As always WE love you ❤️
2026-05-06 23:52:17
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John's_Journeys :
Being a caregiver is tough, and watching someone make decisions you know are bad for them is even harder. Sometimes you have to let them go. You did your best. You gave everything for him when it mattered. That's all that matters in the end.
2026-05-06 23:56:33
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Tyler Dykins :
Appreciate the openness here. Sorry things ended the way they did for you two
2026-05-06 23:45:38
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chasey2111 :
Just bc your “blood” doesent mean you earn a place in there life
2026-05-07 00:55:38
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coreyh11846 :
I enjoyed the dig at SK.
dealing with family can be difficult. at the end of the day, you've done everything you can for him. if he wants to live life this way, that's his choice. you've got to do what's best for you and not let others drag you down
2026-05-07 17:20:25
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✞ :
Anyone else catch that Scotty reference 😂
2026-05-06 23:57:46
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b0las0 :
No, you definitely did the right choice
2026-05-08 17:51:27
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Peazident :
I’m really sorry that this is happening to you
2026-05-07 04:17:57
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Manitoba Mechanic :
Hard choices aren't called that for no reason.
I hope he'll call you but protecting your own mental health and peace has to take priority.
2026-05-07 23:28:05
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Kyanne Cupich :
Yep… you’re doing the right thing
2026-05-07 14:42:20
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rafi :
I can not imagine going through anything like this, you’re an insanely strong man, much respect and love
2026-05-07 04:02:15
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Somto Nwandu :
I respect you and totally understand. I know the fact that you’ve let him make his choice is also hard for you to handle - you probably have moments you feel going to find him but you’re respecting boundaries and setting them. More strength to you sir, I pray that God helps you and your family through the situation and grant you peace and strength.
2026-05-07 09:10:32
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HunterJonnJonzz :
you did your part for decades. they/he cant call? hey siri call bro. sucks to just see the 180
2026-05-07 12:10:09
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😺 katrina.kitten 😺 :
You and Bella did so much for him. Hopefully he will realize who his true family and support is before it’s too late but you both needed to do what is best for your peace too.
2026-05-07 00:56:40
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Xander :
I'm sorry that happened former. you definitely did all you could and I'm sorry it ended the way it did. I'm glad you are where you are and have people like Bella in your life. family sucks sometimes and I'm sorry
2026-05-07 00:24:18
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Retro_Jonathan :
not trying to make this all about me but i haven't heard or talked to my brother in 10 years since he moved out of California.. no text no phone calls nothing until last year he texted showing he's having fun thought i would have conversation with him but no he didn't care about his little brother just himself as my mother says to me "reason why he doesn't respond to you because you're still talking to Matt (our DNA dad) and Patty (grandma)" 😒 it broken me that i lost important sibling i could run to whenever i felt low and hurt or need advise just painful that i carried the weight for my siblings when they're never there for me
2026-05-07 00:21:49
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sondra. :
You’re a great brother.
2026-05-07 17:45:11
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Lilith :
i love that you didn't make a decision for him even tho its not always the right one. you did everything you could and more you are amazing
2026-05-07 13:54:05
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ja :
You made the right decision
2026-05-07 03:58:22
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