@elly.psychologist: Leaving someone after emotional abuse can feel almost impossible because your nervous system has learned to depend on them for comfort and safety. Emotional abuse can isolate you from friends, family and even your own sense of self, making it even harder to walk away. Healing means retraining your mind and body to seek comfort elsewhere, pausing before you respond to them, and slowly rebuilding your support system. It won’t feel easy or natural at first, but over time, you can break the cycle and rediscover your sense of security and joy, separate from the person who caused you harm #emotionallyabusiverelationship #relationshipabuse #emotionalabuse #abusiverelationship #relationshiptok
Elly | Counseling Psychologist
Region: GB
Friday 08 May 2026 07:20:00 GMT
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Jackie68 :
I keep going back cause I've got nobody else and I'm lonely.
2026-05-09 05:57:27
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Steven Jordan :
this is misleading what if you both truly still love each other
2026-05-08 11:30:11
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Trinidad 🇹🇹 Beauty :
What if you’re living in the same house?
2026-06-09 17:12:35
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Helen :
Why do I feel I need him and my life is better with him in it then when he’s here , I don’t want him ?
2026-06-10 19:02:32
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❤️ :
Thank you for this video 🙏
2026-05-09 05:53:27
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lee.r55 :
So very helpful, thank you Elly
2026-05-09 10:12:49
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🇪🇸🇵🇹🇮🇩❤️ MADAM CEO💘 :
he blocked me so many times ..I forgive him more than 3 times and I am still love him...now I am lonely.. suffering .I miss him so much 😭😭😭
2026-05-21 18:21:57
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Skye :
Keep them blocked
2026-05-17 16:24:39
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Marie Engley :
This me 😢every
2026-05-09 05:34:08
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Palmer🇹🇨 :
or block em on everything
2026-05-10 00:15:50
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Lisa :
What if it’s when you don’t respond straight away that you get bombarded with further messages that cause even more stress and anxiety?
2026-05-19 23:27:45
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Christina 🧿 :
I blocked him everywhere, he emailed to say sorry- i blocked. I literally want out
2026-05-18 20:28:53
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janicenaiker :
Very true. Once the trauma bond is broken then only you are set free
2026-05-27 10:45:27
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Anton-@ :
9yrs together 6mths she’s found someone els
2026-05-19 01:47:35
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tbarker1234 :
Whilst your nervous system is healing can this make you have nightmares about the person xx
2026-05-09 17:00:47
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letalennon :
Thank you 🙏
2026-05-26 21:44:54
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Alahrech :
Thank you Elly 🙏❤️
2026-05-20 19:56:32
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Zoë❄️ Inyeon :
This 😏
2026-05-19 19:27:27
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niiyoh :
Learning alot from you. This is the hardest part. May God help us.
2026-05-08 14:29:08
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jenna :
this is so helpful thank you ✨
2026-05-08 14:50:17
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Reinette Titus :
Thank you so much. iam done with the toxic relationship. I stop it completely.
2026-05-14 11:24:14
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❤️🔥❤️🔥 :
28years of relationship, so many things connected, he simply walked out with someone younger n I am not able to draw that line to keep him away, whenever he wants he comes back whenever he doesn’t he doesn’t care 💔
2026-05-13 03:55:41
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@Mentalexit :
No none goes back to the old / broken relationships if they don’t see more advantages vs disadvantages being in that relationships…You are only labelling good or bad that’s based on your subjective bias…and this usually won’t get us anywhere…I worked personally in relationships 20 years and each person has their own reasons to go back to that relationship…The method of yours on the surface and survival mode which doesn’t serve long term…Becuuse it’s one sided…One day if you come across to read my book, 3 dollar experience will change your counselling skills…Promise !
2026-05-21 03:34:08
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jacky :
is happening to me
2026-05-08 07:42:55
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