@putribaswedan: Some people don't love you. They love how easy you make their life feel. And the difference only becomes clear when you finally stop. . Somewhere between "what if I mess up" and "what will people think" - I decided neither was a good enough reason not to try. So here we are, I challenged myself to do this in English. Just to prove to myself that fear of judgment is a terrible reason to stay small. 🤍
the key is having time to be unavailable to one another. have time for yourself, have hobby. have a LIFE OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP. u dont need your partner. U WANT THEM
2026-05-09 03:44:56
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sou. :
berarti boleh ya merajuk sedikit, dan sibuk tanpa harus ngerasa bersalah..
2026-05-14 08:36:09
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babahvlog :
ketika kangen rasanya dicintai, mampir kerumah ibu, padahal cuma dibuatin telor dadar, dibawain nasi, diambilin minum, eh tangki cintanya full lagi
2026-05-14 00:34:37
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barranqt :
THANK YOU MBAK, glad i'm still too young for these things..
2026-05-17 03:15:31
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pnjinakbom :
this topic makes me sad. because it's so relatable. i've become so available since this year, and it makes them appreciate me less.
2026-05-14 14:30:28
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andme :
dang it's not only for lovers but all kind of relationship
2026-05-14 02:50:19
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The Singing Chef :
It's soooo me. Always tried to feel needed. Then I got tired. Maybe then some friends are gone becos they don't need me anymore.
2026-05-12 00:15:28
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Maii:D :
yeah, i hate when someone just treat me like theyre psychologist. They gave me bad emotion with a normal talk. So when I realized, my feelings was gone to them. I became soo stressed for be an emotional-trash to someone, Even if I like them in past time:(
2026-05-13 16:57:41
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Happy Widya :
kakkkk dlu kamu pernah bikin vt tentang kita ketemu orang krn ada garis dia dan aku ketemu, trus garisnya misah yg artinya waktunya udh abis dan berpisah, aku lupa yg mana
2026-05-11 08:31:09
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Blossom🌸🌻 :
Thank you for speaking my miinddd😭 I felt this kind of relationship and yesss I finally get tired😭 well if I am going to be rude, lets say that they maybe just use us in a particular problem that they have😭
2026-05-17 11:27:59
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KENT :
THIS DID HELP A LOT, FYP RIGHT ON THE TIME I NEEDED THE MOST! THANK YOU SO MUCH. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. ALHAMDULILLAH
2026-05-19 04:41:49
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milkita :
hah kok pas bgt waktunya 😭
2026-05-14 01:10:21
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TEMPT-PICKS :
i don't even know what love is.
2026-05-08 14:27:37
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ִֶָ. ..𓂃𝓡𝓮𝓮𝓢𝓮 ࣪ ִֶָ་༘࿐ :
kak, haven't seen you for a while and now you suddenly popped up on my fyp at the perfect time, literally big thanks for the reminder 🥺🩷
2026-05-17 15:20:36
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lovely jubbly :
ah sial
2026-05-13 19:06:12
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fira🧚🏻♀️ :
lowkey familiar😃
2026-05-17 08:20:02
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masalah hidup :
yg bisa dicintai tanpa syarat cuma Bayi🥰
2026-05-08 05:39:47
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Slonong Boy :
Inggris gue pasif.... tapi ini mengena banget, gue lagi dititik jenuh.... pengen bisa jadi diri sendiri... yang cuma bisa gue rasakan saat solo traveling dan backpackeran.....
2026-05-08 13:08:44
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Quexillo :
social media killed romance
2026-05-09 19:44:08
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hihanghoheng :
I'm so sorry, I thought you were Angelina Jolie.... You're so pretty.
2026-05-16 18:29:43
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arrowmantic :
lagi di fase ini dengan orang yg salah kurasa
2026-05-14 00:37:11
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Z_yaaa :
I love myself. It doesn’t need boundaries for it. That’s why I choose myself million times. Sounds selfish but I’m also human with feelings
2026-05-10 05:17:15
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crmelurs :
it's not just about love, it's in any relationship, like friendship etc
2026-05-16 16:01:38
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🥀 :
Sedang melihat diri sendiri 😢😢
2026-05-14 00:01:20
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Unmanned Vehicle :
2026-05-08 00:27:26
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