@elly.psychologist: Emotional manipulation often looks like endless excuses for someone’s hurtful behaviour or feeling responsible for their pain. You might find yourself justifying their actions, believing their struggles explain everything, and putting your own needs aside. This is how emotional manipulation works: it taps into your empathy, making you self-abandon and tolerate patterns that harm you. The reasons might change, but the impact on you is always the same. You can care about someone’s pain and still set boundaries. Recognising emotional manipulation is the first step to holding on to your own truth and protecting your wellbeing #manipulation #emotionallymanipulative #manipulative #emotionallyabusiverelationship #relationshiptok
Within families the impact can be even more amplified..
2026-05-10 21:48:40
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Alexandra Bliss :
very much needed to hear this. thank you.
2026-05-18 07:14:27
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UnstableUnicorn🏳️🌈🇬🇧 :
I love your content amd I would love to book a session with you. but when I click on the book now link it goes to a blank page. x
2026-05-20 02:01:57
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Rona cohen :
How stunning you are. You really explain in such a embracing way to those who have experienced this pain time after time. It is not simple and certainly not easy to understand that you have lived an entire life in a life that is not yours. Thank you for the videos 🫂❤️🩹🌷
2026-05-14 19:26:42
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Sundance12345678 :
thank you so much for your Videos 💪🥰 they are so helpful 🥰
2026-06-01 07:39:40
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Jaffa :
well said 😳
2026-07-06 18:59:57
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Jenny Blond :
Best thing I've heard so far!!!
2026-05-10 17:30:30
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Katja Sešel :
So well said 🥰
2026-06-20 19:12:35
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user6638868049192 :
You just look at them differently!
2026-05-10 11:23:13
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Karen 📚& Missy the Lab 🐶🇳🇱 :
This is so true! I keep having this same issue with a ‘friend’ and I keep forgiving her for the 💩 she keeps saying to me, and her not feeling accountable for her actions in hurting my feelings, just because she thinks hers are more valid. I have not spoken to her in 10 days and I am still debating if I should just drop the friendship.. this has happened so many times over the course of 3 years and I am getting sick and tired of it at this point
2026-05-10 07:31:53
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Giggs 💜🇨🇾💙 :
Completely agree
2026-05-22 16:15:35
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laingfleet :
hi is ir OK for my husband to see other woman just as friend for 2 yesr behind my back x
2026-06-11 18:19:16
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Initiates awaken! :
Only if you think it is true!If this isn’t an issue within you it doesn’t affect you!
2026-05-10 11:54:35
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mysize_xl :
oh Elly 🥺🥹
2026-05-10 09:34:19
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Romina Harasti :
💚🙏.. 👍👍 great job!! .. I mean words!! 🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-10 08:51:10
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user2560273271760 :
Yes! Their problems or issues do not correlate to how they treat you. It doesn’t matter what is going on in their life hurting you is not ok. Everyone has issues and stress and they have to learn to deal with those issues. You do not have to be their punching bad
2026-05-10 15:11:51
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Melodi.A. :
I did it. Last month. now me and mum dont talk so much anymore, I start to feel better after blocking my birth family. 💜 thank you, needed to hear this not to feel bad at go back to feel sorry for them.
2026-05-10 09:46:30
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TherapyWithSarahP | Ontario :
THISS 👏
2026-05-13 20:40:35
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Pina :
Wow so true!!
2026-05-11 18:25:12
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Eileen Rooney :
I have been hurt and have lots of empathy but if I cant forgive how do I expect ppl to forgive me when iv been in pian and hurt outhers whether I was hurting
2026-05-10 14:00:58
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Neil M :
👏👏👏👏 Love your videos. Thank you
2026-07-20 16:27:15
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mighty :
reserved it and that's what I feel about myself and not there problem
2026-05-13 15:08:53
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D€€𓆩♡𓆪❀ :
STILL NOT AN EXCUSE!!
2026-05-12 05:35:59
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Call_me_marie :
I did not giving nobody empathy, because people hurt me so many times in the past and I try to understand and this cost me so much. I I struggle than with self worth and I am a very confident person in the general.
2026-05-10 10:22:01
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