@elly.psychologist: Emotional manipulation often looks like endless excuses for someone’s hurtful behaviour or feeling responsible for their pain. You might find yourself justifying their actions, believing their struggles explain everything, and putting your own needs aside. This is how emotional manipulation works: it taps into your empathy, making you self-abandon and tolerate patterns that harm you. The reasons might change, but the impact on you is always the same. You can care about someone’s pain and still set boundaries. Recognising emotional manipulation is the first step to holding on to your own truth and protecting your wellbeing #manipulation #emotionallymanipulative #manipulative #emotionallyabusiverelationship #relationshiptok

Elly | Counseling Psychologist
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sparkonlinemarketing
Spark Online Marketing :
Within families the impact can be even more amplified..
2026-05-10 21:48:40
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alexbliss61
Alexandra Bliss :
very much needed to hear this. thank you.
2026-05-18 07:14:27
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lizzy.haywoodbatty
UnstableUnicorn🏳️‍🌈🇬🇧 :
I love your content amd I would love to book a session with you. but when I click on the book now link it goes to a blank page. x
2026-05-20 02:01:57
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ronacohen749
Rona cohen :
How stunning you are. You really explain in such a embracing way to those who have experienced this pain time after time. It is not simple and certainly not easy to understand that you have lived an entire life in a life that is not yours. Thank you for the videos 🫂❤️‍🩹🌷
2026-05-14 19:26:42
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sundance12345678
Sundance12345678 :
thank you so much for your Videos 💪🥰 they are so helpful 🥰
2026-06-01 07:39:40
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jaffa328
Jaffa :
well said 😳
2026-07-06 18:59:57
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jenny.blond
Jenny Blond :
Best thing I've heard so far!!!
2026-05-10 17:30:30
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katjasesel
Katja Sešel :
So well said 🥰
2026-06-20 19:12:35
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usedname5792
user6638868049192 :
You just look at them differently!
2026-05-10 11:23:13
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missy_vulcano_impossible
Karen 📚& Missy the Lab 🐶🇳🇱 :
This is so true! I keep having this same issue with a ‘friend’ and I keep forgiving her for the 💩 she keeps saying to me, and her not feeling accountable for her actions in hurting my feelings, just because she thinks hers are more valid. I have not spoken to her in 10 days and I am still debating if I should just drop the friendship.. this has happened so many times over the course of 3 years and I am getting sick and tired of it at this point
2026-05-10 07:31:53
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giggs280
Giggs 💜🇨🇾💙 :
Completely agree
2026-05-22 16:15:35
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roseleanlaing
laingfleet :
hi is ir OK for my husband to see other woman just as friend for 2 yesr behind my back x
2026-06-11 18:19:16
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bundy0397
Initiates awaken! :
Only if you think it is true!If this isn’t an issue within you it doesn’t affect you!
2026-05-10 11:54:35
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mysize_xl
mysize_xl :
oh Elly 🥺🥹
2026-05-10 09:34:19
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romina.harasti6
Romina Harasti :
💚🙏.. 👍👍 great job!! .. I mean words!! 🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-10 08:51:10
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sgruv
user2560273271760 :
Yes! Their problems or issues do not correlate to how they treat you. It doesn’t matter what is going on in their life hurting you is not ok. Everyone has issues and stress and they have to learn to deal with those issues. You do not have to be their punching bad
2026-05-10 15:11:51
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i_am_melodi
Melodi.A. :
I did it. Last month. now me and mum dont talk so much anymore, I start to feel better after blocking my birth family. 💜 thank you, needed to hear this not to feel bad at go back to feel sorry for them.
2026-05-10 09:46:30
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therapywithsarahp
TherapyWithSarahP | Ontario :
THISS 👏
2026-05-13 20:40:35
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pina83813
Pina :
Wow so true!!
2026-05-11 18:25:12
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eileen.rooney3
Eileen Rooney :
I have been hurt and have lots of empathy but if I cant forgive how do I expect ppl to forgive me when iv been in pian and hurt outhers whether I was hurting
2026-05-10 14:00:58
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natural_plant_medicine
Neil M :
👏👏👏👏 Love your videos. Thank you
2026-07-20 16:27:15
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mighty4163
mighty :
reserved it and that's what I feel about myself and not there problem
2026-05-13 15:08:53
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chz.163
D€€𓆩♡𓆪❀ :
STILL NOT AN EXCUSE!!
2026-05-12 05:35:59
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call_me_marie
Call_me_marie :
I did not giving nobody empathy, because people hurt me so many times in the past and I try to understand and this cost me so much. I I struggle than with self worth and I am a very confident person in the general.
2026-05-10 10:22:01
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