“and how do YOU feel about this” aka the question i ask to figure out what they’re looking for in a response
2026-05-07 22:46:16
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Connor 🌸 :
You’re the realest micro celebrity to me
2026-05-07 19:37:03
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Lauren :
Girl you killed that response 11/10
2026-05-07 21:21:23
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julka <33 :
i know its a joke but i wish i could just ask people what kind of reaction they expect from me
2026-05-08 21:05:14
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bxiomara235 :
i wish i could actually ask for a rate on my response so i could catalog which response gets the most positive outcome in a given scenario
2026-05-08 15:55:12
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just._.sierras._.tik :
and honestly? i think you handled it pretty well. please rate my response.
2026-05-08 05:23:16
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Scuffed sheleighly :
I wish I had a friend like this.
2026-05-08 18:39:10
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des :
literally my default response in these situations is "are we venting or are we in solutions mode" 😭
2026-05-10 03:59:04
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Samantha Levin :
This reminds me of Abed. Troy and Abed in the morning!
2026-05-08 11:58:44
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🇵🇷 Teena 🇲🇽 :
I always want a grade. I get a grade on my sleep. If it’s under 94 I am UPSET
2026-05-08 14:10:24
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Orangegaytorade⁷ :
this is exactly the thing ive had to do with family members lol, makes conversing much easier
2026-05-07 21:30:55
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ᴅ1 ꜱᴀɴɢᴡᴏɴ ɢʟᴀᴢᴇʀ :
wait deadass i ask what response people want and then ask them to rate my response
2026-05-08 10:43:37
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avatarkorrafan :
I wanna tell my supervisor to stop using motivational interviewing on me, how do I phrase it to her gently
2026-05-08 23:41:11
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Hannah Limonci :
I ask "would you like comfort or advice?"
2026-05-27 09:12:40
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prvse :
literally what do people want from me
2026-05-09 18:31:29
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Lilli😘 :
I also ask people what kind of response they want😭
2026-05-08 23:49:49
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Bryce :
I have to rate my own responses to try to improve for next time. The problem is that I can only guess how good my response was
2026-05-10 16:28:44
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Crystalwlwhoe :
oh my god i do this to my friends. I literally give them a multiple choice answer of how i can best support them
2026-05-08 02:34:43
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BACKFIRED!! :
Have I just been asking different masked versions of multiple choice comfort options???? Usually I say “is there anything you’d like me to do or is me just listening helpful?”
2026-05-09 12:43:37
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muse_1982 :
Your videos are so funny and relatable!
2026-05-15 04:06:55
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y (^_-) :
FRFR I NEED
2026-05-09 18:31:45
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ayanna :)) :
i always panic because i’m evaluating all the options in my head and never know which one to pick
2026-06-06 05:05:24
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owlish :
wtf I did this earlier today at work
2026-05-08 21:10:45
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Poudahands :
I’ve been told that I am the human chat gpt bc the way I sound when trying to help😭😭
2026-05-19 18:55:06
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