Mariam 🧚🏼♀️ :
I could say SO much more regarding this topic ahhh, but guys, it’s time to lock in! 🤪When you make a decision, that shift is INSTANT. But are you STAYING there?! The only thing you ever have to overcome is the old version of YOU (and give them grace, they didn’t know any better 🩷they adapted the collective beliefs, assumptions, thought loops, and (thus) experiences from society, family, friends etc.). Understand you were never even this person to begin with; Decide who you want to be NOW (that version already exists!). If you say “yep, I’m the person who’s loved, adored, valued, chosen, magnetic etc. and my SP loves me and we’re together NOW and they treat me so amazingly”, then STICK to that decision. Before complaining to your friends, fake arguing with them in your mind (which, whatever you’re bringing to your minds eye is happening NOW too), describing them in a poor way, saying “I WISH they were different, I can’t believe they did that”, ask yourself — “am I being the person that’s truly in a relationship with them? Am I sticking to my decision? Does this align with the version of me that already has it?” If the answer is no, then don’t do it. Instead, think about it from a place of it is done. You see the opposite in the 3D? Well, everything is leading you there, so don’t allow old news to sway you. Your ego is telling you that you need to fix yourself? Why would you fix yourself if you’re already perfect? Your ego is bringing up the perceived “past”, and is being loud? Allow the thoughts to be there, let them pass. Do they align with your decision? If not, then let them pass. They have no authority over you. If you physically feel sad, angry, or upset, that’s okay. Feel the feelings out, WHILST STILL sticking to your decision. A fleeting feeling, a thought, an experience cannot tell you who you are, unless you decide that that’s what’s true for you! 🩷
2026-05-07 19:41:55