I'm 50. The best response is NOT TO HAVE ONE. Any reaction is what they want. It's HARD. Bur just stay quiet and UNBOTHERED
2026-05-08 08:23:26
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Stephanie :
Can you make a kids book on bullying please!
2026-05-08 11:48:43
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Alissa :
I think it’s more nuanced. I see it as “I’m sitting here alone in this kiddie pool of emotion and I don’t want to feel alone”. So they are trying (poorly) to connect with someone. To feel less alone.
2026-05-08 20:26:21
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ms :
Oh. You changed grey rock to wet blanket ?
2026-05-07 23:14:36
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Valeria :
Misery loves company.
2026-05-14 14:12:35
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Lisa Keady :
This is harder to translate to a kid who is being bullied. Kid bullying is so much worse I think….
2026-05-08 01:56:15
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Tristyne 🇦🇺 :
Hearing this as an adult feels like finding out the rules after finishing the game 🙃
2026-05-12 10:34:42
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gravelands :
misery craves company
2026-05-12 09:52:05
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Sherry Belew :
I always taught my children “consider the source!”
2026-05-08 23:16:15
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Lola26 :
Yes as a child with a borderline parent
2026-05-08 12:43:41
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sallydehler :
Gray Rock
2026-05-08 20:46:16
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Pain 2 Purpose :
Jefferson can you visit me at work every day? Your videos have really helped me but when it comes time to use it ………😤😤😤😤
2026-05-11 23:24:27
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darlariley448 :
sad
2026-05-08 19:28:21
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Theta Mind :
no need to be around that tension
2026-05-08 02:28:53
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Ness786 :
Misery loves company
2026-05-09 16:44:08
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FranJustine :
Amanda and West in a nutshell
2026-06-16 20:48:10
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Dennie Best :
When you make a reference to the wet blanket all I could think of was The Brave Little Toaster when Kirby accuses Blankey.
2026-05-08 09:50:18
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crocodiles0 :
How about just an apology……perhaps we just want them to acknowledge they hurt us
2026-05-09 07:23:28
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CYNDI-Blue Rose-Desert Rose :
Good one. Excellent.. 🥰🥰🥰Lol
2026-05-08 01:26:02
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Addie :
Are your videos AI?
2026-05-07 23:41:05
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LBoogyRussell1706 :
Aren’t they being the wet blanket and we are grey rocking it?
2026-05-08 19:22:04
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luvslake0 :
A good question is, how do you handle someone who continually is a wet blanket. Wants to spoil activities or plans on purpose.
2026-05-08 17:46:29
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can can2375 :
just leave the room bruh
2026-07-10 09:58:26
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BadassCounseling :
These are always excellent responses in the moment that you teach. However, what I’ve not heard your address is the simple fact that regardless of how the bullied person may respond in that moment it is an indisputable fact that those words from the bully still hurt. And so the question comes what are you providing to that bullying person to help them heal from the pain later?
2026-06-26 16:21:48
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Mas Egreog :
Celestine prophecy
2026-05-08 00:05:21
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