I’m so sorry this happened to you. I also had a traumatic experience at the gyno at 15. Vaginismus is so real ugh
2026-05-08 12:01:01
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Galaxy :
Oh Charm I’m so sorry, that’s so violating after what you had already been through so young. I had never heard of vaginismus, that’s a new one for me and it’s a good one to know!
2026-05-09 11:29:36
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Saripndippity :
It’s worth finding a good provider. My GYN (they do not do obstetrics at all in that office which i love) is a nurse practitioner and she’s so smart close to my age and androgynous which makes me super comfortable
2026-05-08 17:44:55
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Lexfromtex :
This makes me physically ill😩😕😢 I am so sorry the health system failed you during this terrible time of your life. From one survivor to another, I love you 🖤
2026-05-08 11:42:09
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kayyoohh :
Excuse me?!?
2026-05-07 23:01:49
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AleinCatt :
I absolutely adore you and Veen and you have the biggest heart. I am so sorry that happened. As an SA survivor myself I haven’t gone since I was forced by my mom when I was 13. Thank you for speaking out and being so vulnerable sharing your story. 🧡
2026-05-07 23:33:39
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Allison :
😭😭😭this is why I go to a midwife now, they tend to be a lot nicer/understanding of conditions like vaginismus
2026-05-08 03:56:11
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kayt_alverson :
Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry.😔
2026-05-07 23:56:48
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Alicia Garvin :
What a horrible experience I’m so sorry !!
2026-05-08 00:28:30
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gassynclassy :
i had a very similar experience as a teenager, and the pap smear provider yelled at me to stop clenching. last year after 11 years i had my first pap smear with a lovely doctor and she also had an awful pap smear experience when she was young and gave me the most thoughtful and calm pap smear experience i could have ever hoped for. used the small speculum, put the gel packets in her pocket to warm them up while she got prepared, talked me through every step empathetically. it was very healing, and i hope you can have the same soon 🩷🩷🩷
2026-05-27 11:06:38
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Greeneyedpup :
I waited years to get a pap. A long time. I ended up having cancer. Plz go get yourself checked…
2026-05-08 14:26:15
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Candy - Video Creator 🇦🇺 :
I'm not sure about the US, but recently in Australia they give you a swab kit and you can do the swap yourself and then just drop it back to them to test. Gives you privacy and saves your dignity! 🩷
2026-05-19 04:39:20
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Christina 🧿 :
im so sorry this happend to you. I highly recommend going to see a women’s health nurse practitioner or nurse midwife. They are the best and have amazing bedside manner and a more holistic approach! I find that most of them are very trauma informed
2026-05-09 03:42:40
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LeighCJ83 :
I’m so sorry this happened to you!
2026-05-08 00:34:10
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kayden marie 🤍 :
I also have vaginismus :/
2026-05-08 03:40:02
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femmefapole :
I’m so sorry you experienced this :/
2026-05-08 05:00:56
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💚baklava by bus🚎 :
Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry you went through that. Of course it causes you panic. I wish you growth and progress on your healing journey. 🫂🩷
2026-05-07 23:31:52
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Kacey_dilla :
I have vaginismus. I only ever get a pap when I have to get my IUD replaced. I had a young female doctor and wow I think they're training them better these days. it was still very painful but she was so sensitive to my needs
2026-05-08 05:12:17
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emma :
Oh charm I am so sorry. 💗
2026-05-07 23:47:19
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Nugs(he/they) :
solidarity, had this for years 😭
2026-05-07 23:20:59
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Cierra :
Omg I’m so sorry this happened to u )):
2026-05-08 00:07:03
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user511861831123 :
Going to a men gynecologist is like going to a mechanic who never had a car, only books that explain them, switch to a woman and try too go with a friend, lots of hugs 🥰🥰
2026-07-15 03:03:23
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Rene Ray :
Very brave to share your story. So frightening and I am so sorry you had to go through this. 🩷
2026-05-08 22:54:39
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Sammy Blossom :
I’m so sorry this happened to you 😢
2026-05-08 12:49:25
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junejunejulyjuly :
I’m sorry that happened to you. I’ve found the best care from midwives. They do routine care as well. It’s a game changer. Highly recommend. Most are trauma informed, better educated on evidence based research, and are women focused.
2026-06-18 01:34:09
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