@johndelony: So many men have been taught: If I can’t produce, fix, provide, or carry the load, then I don’t matter. And man, that’s a brutal way to live. Yes, men need skills. Yes, responsibility matters. But your value as a human being was never supposed to come from how useful you are to everybody else. Please hear me on this if nobody’s told you lately: You are more than what you produce. The people who love you most don’t just need what you can do. They need you. Delony #mensmentalhealth #selfworth #emotionalhealth
Dr. John Delony
Region: US
Friday 08 May 2026 15:55:16 GMT
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JustSaiyan :
What does “if I’m not my answers, what am I?” Mean?
2026-05-08 16:39:12
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REH :
No. Our value is the value we provide. Otherwise we have no purpose
2026-05-10 04:55:25
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Gen Xer :
If I’m more valuable than what I do then what is that value brother because I can’t name it.
2026-05-08 19:12:48
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Kelly Smith :
My husbands existence is his value, I love his heart and who he is as a person not what he can do
2026-05-09 19:26:29
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HollyMM :
I'm a woman..and I struggle with this daily.
2026-05-09 22:54:34
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🌟🍪📚✨Marissa H ✨📚🍪🌟 :
I don’t need him to “fix” everything. Just trying is enough. Supporting. Loving. Listening.
2026-05-09 11:23:13
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Jimmmmd :
The question I ask behind closed doors is “if I don’t love my job, can I job my love”
2026-05-09 04:56:27
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Jessica H. :
I just want to be thought of in the equation, and I’m not. Ever.
2026-05-11 02:36:21
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VinnyBiscuits :
As a 40 something, life has taught me my value is in my paycheck. Nothing more.
2026-06-27 02:32:29
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Taylor Heflin :
This is so true. My husband is going through chemotherapy right now, and just getting through the day is all he can do. I love him more every single day still 🥰
2026-05-08 16:02:44
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Rob-Not-Bob :
Unfortunately most of us are raise that our value is directly tied what we provide in the form of labor, support, or action. When we see something that needs to be, we feel like we’re failing if we don’t step in.
2026-05-09 20:28:08
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Nancy Smancy :
my husband went back to work 6 days after his HA. I get it. I admire it and hate it at the same time. Work ethic is admirable, but work life balance makes EVERYONE happy.
2026-05-09 00:22:22
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jooooooooj98 :
"Give a man a purpose and the ability to achieve it, he will crawl over broken glass with a smile"
Chris Williamson
2026-05-17 23:41:54
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user9298184297896 :
I remember this quote from a long time ago don’t exactly remember who said it the quote was we are what we do. We do what we choose.
2026-05-09 19:18:48
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shhoottter :
wat???
2026-05-11 15:26:12
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FunWithMusic :
Don't get your sense of self worth from other people.
2026-05-09 04:05:50
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Gits&Shiggles 🇺🇸 :
this makes no sense
2026-06-06 10:55:06
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raymcgraw588 :
im 68 and that's exactly how I feel
2026-05-08 22:15:01
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Jeana | Life & Finance :
Copy trading is so insanely underrated 😅
2026-05-08 16:04:49
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razz_matazz11 :
Cool shirt
2026-05-24 00:04:23
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thesoberdad_ :
I only feel as valuable - as I am useful…
2026-05-14 02:54:11
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Christi :
Empathy and teamwork are the most important skills.
2026-05-09 20:34:56
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Feminine Fuel :
I’m a woman that needs to learn this too!
2026-05-26 12:57:18
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Bl4ckh4wk :
Realizing and understanding that value is different than being able to live it. Sometimes we will have moments in life where everything we were, we thought we were, is taken away. Health. A long marriage. Closeness with your kids. 20+ years of good employment. When it all falls apart at once, even me as a Christian whose identity is firmly in Christ, can feel so lost in this world, and know I'm not the man I once thought I was, and the ones I love so dearly can no longer count on me, because everything I THOUGHT I knew was who I was, is just gone. And at 48, it's so hard to see how to start over in everything
2026-05-09 20:06:17
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Fuck You Ricky :
I feel like I am worth nothing just the way I feel
2026-05-13 04:11:42
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