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vib80 🇳🇴 :
Tag when video about the difference between a break up and discard is out
2026-05-09 15:22:15
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wabyfayce :
I didn’t let him give me the good guy break up, he said allllll the things. “It’s not you it’s me” “right person wrong time” “maybe in another life” I was perfectly ok with snail speed. So I made him be the villain he said he is. I made him say “I don’t like you, I don’t want you” so that I wouldn’t come back and try. Then I hung up and blocked. You don’t get to think I’ll always be there when I was and chose to throw me away.
2026-05-09 11:32:48
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haleydewald :
he completely ghosted me and i have had 0 signs of life from him for 3 months. i stopped reaching out almost a month ago, & now i saw him in my instagram story views 2 nights ago. i think it’s finally starting to hit him now 😌
2026-06-05 13:55:39
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Ryan :
I guess I wasnt discarded then. interesting!
2026-05-08 18:19:51
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Xenia K. F. :
if you're watching it.... I guess its too late for you too 😭
2026-05-08 23:58:19
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🫁 :
Hummmm I’m wondering about my situation… it’s a weird one
2026-05-08 20:03:16
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lonelyclouds :
Do you think my ex still fearful avoidant if his therapist agreed he should break up? He gave me a very vague reason like not feeling passionate enough and cried a lot.
2026-05-10 18:29:15
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Elon Musk's Diva Cup :
Nah. I'm good. First he said he fell out of love. Then he claimed he never had feelings and didn't expect that I'd catch feelings and wanted to remain friends. I told him that I couldn't trust him enough to call him a friend anymore. That ship has sailed.
2026-05-10 13:44:45
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Abbi :
Friends for years before we got together. Tried to be friends after he ended it. I still had feelings. He moved on, hid it from me while still being “friendly” with me, I found out and that’s when I had to block him
2026-05-09 04:47:01
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achyuth :
do they come back if it was so abrupt ?
2026-06-01 15:23:54
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The Aestheticpreneur :
I dunno. This all felt like a nothing burger sorry
2026-05-21 22:54:02
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Panos :
I'm watching all your videos and you are really expert about fearful avoidants.....but I have a question.....WHY so much analysis,so much work,so much effort for JUST having a normal relationship? Which no one guarantees that it's not gonna be a nightmare leaving you devastated and deeply traumatized.
2026-05-08 18:30:42
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Tyler VanEps :
2 days. In case anyone is wondering the short answer
2026-05-18 13:07:58
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💗💗Nicole💗💗 :
This is my life right now.
2026-05-08 20:36:49
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Kuma :
I genuinely want to fix my attachment style but I don’t know how
2026-05-16 01:06:15
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Oana🐈⬛ :
So what does it mean when they discard you and they just disappear??
2026-05-08 21:07:55
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kristinamames :
So. When should I reach out again?
2026-05-24 20:58:46
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bob :
If he just ghosted me is that a discard
2026-05-08 19:31:23
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almostahappystory :
my ex fiancee broke up with me 3 days before our wedding and a day after I lost my job due to a tech layoff. she ghosted me for 12 days and went to our honeymoon destination alone while I was worried about her and messaging/calling her for days. she resurfaced after 12 days and told me that she regrets nothing. it has been 8 months of no contact.
2026-05-10 01:31:29
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Abagail🖤 :
6 years in and we have kids. He broke up with me saying he didn't love me anymore and didn't want me anymore. We don't argue haven't had any issues I was completely blindsided. I've spent years on and off trying to understand his emotions and needing that support.. we have contact now because of the kids and co parenting and I'm so hurtttt I don't understand...
2026-05-14 19:38:56
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liamdoesrockclimbing :
No matter what- never go back. Now that I’m gone I do not miss the constant push and pull.
2026-05-14 14:18:40
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Nina :
Relief, rebound connections immediately after (two weeks after the breakup), almost a year later new relationship with her on his pfp 😁
2026-05-25 09:41:22
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Awakened66Soul :
What do you do when they've invented suspicions that you've lied or cheated (baseless and untrue) and even with evidence they maintain their belief? how do I stay without abandoning my boundaries and self respect? I'm totally honest and he has convinced himself I'm a liar.
2026-05-25 06:57:27
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Heartbreak Archive :
As a fearful avoidant. A breakup is usually long term and final. I've though about it long and hard - and it's usually coming from a secure place. It doesn't happen during a fight, during a feeling of not being safe. I don't regret breakups. A discard (including during a fight - e.g. "I'm done" "this is a mistake" "you're better off") yes. Regret. Nearly immediately or within a couple months.
2026-05-22 22:59:45
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