@antdsply: A lot of couples get stuck because they try to compare pain instead of understanding it. Guilt and betrayal trauma are both painful, but they are not the same experience…and healing requires honesty about that. 💕 #cheating #infidelity #cheater #betrayaltrauma #infidelityrecovery
Mine said he felt bad, wanted to fix it, held me while I cried… all while we was still talking to her
2026-05-13 19:47:27
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Savannah :
I’m no longer his peace and probably will never be again
2026-06-10 18:26:08
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les :
We decided to take a break from the relationship, I'm gonna stay w fam in another state, and it's just because he feels bad, I told him I forgive him, I told him I love him, I told him that we can move past it but he hates himself for what he did and he wants to heal and I have to respect that. We agreed to stay in contact and everything because we want to be together but it's gonna take time. It took me a moment to realize he's right, he made an incredibly uncharacteristic decision/mistake and he's grieving that too. We love each other and we want to be together but we also want to move forward, I just pray we can because he is everything to me.
2026-06-13 08:10:43
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Pauwee.zzz :
I'd like to ask, why everytime I bring up the overthinking because of the cheating he just wants to ignore it and then he gets mad?
2026-05-12 10:10:47
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Shelby Renee :
I don’t care about the cheater
2026-06-25 16:52:31
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Tzairauh :
I’m not healed enough yet for this one but I support you so I’m commenting before I scroll on this one 😅
2026-05-09 00:48:28
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Michele Nicole :
I felt shame because I became a person I didn’t recognize, didn’t wanna be.
2026-05-09 17:34:57
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charlottequiltco :
what about the patterned cheater. the one who cheats, says it was emotional so it didnt count, does it again but you kick him to the curb. he meets someone new a few years later and cheats on her....like should she be understanding and know hes "hurting" or maybe hes just an @$$
2026-07-22 02:13:29
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Maggie Chagolla :
yeah but .... nope.
2026-05-11 14:12:25
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Okibear :
No they don’t the hurt by getting caught
2026-06-14 14:54:00
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Stephanie :
I get it when he says he needs to feel loved by me too. It’s just not easy. I’m all over the place emotionally. At the moment it feels like a demand, that makes me shut even more down. 😞
2026-05-09 21:09:34
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Julie Bea 🤍 :
This makes sooo much sense!
2026-05-08 20:03:27
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marybutler674 :
So true. I’m hurting twice as much, I’m hurt but also feel the pain he’s feeling because I love him and he’s constantly beating himself up for hurting me. We’re healing together though .
2026-05-12 04:05:41
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kayla <3 :
ion even wanna hear it rn
2026-05-10 19:20:39
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Brad A 🍔🍺 :
Clarification: one person grieving that s/he got caught.
2026-06-07 04:12:34
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Magic Tawsheena :
My has not cared in the slightest
2026-05-15 20:15:59
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charlene.xo121 :
Yep, I knew he wasn’t telling me the truth even though I already knew, he told me he’s in “survival mode” and I think it’s from guilt.
2026-05-09 00:05:22
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Starboy :
You are absolutely right
2026-05-09 06:30:33
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𝗙ᴏxᴇs ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴠɪɴᴇʏᴀʀᴅ :
you’re a beautiful soul, I appreciate every post you guys make. I sent a message and I pray the Lord keeps blessing you! 🙏
2026-05-09 13:49:33
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user4011628083762 :
How?
2026-05-10 08:03:32
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Amanda :
Mine is trying to live it up, no care in the world and definitely not for me or what he did to me. He is moving on & filed for divorce. As for me, I’m on my own healing journey with God. Changing myself and my thoughts 🙏
2026-05-13 17:27:57
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𝓐𝓵𝓵𝔂 :
How do I move on from it how do I trust him again
2026-07-07 23:50:30
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hiddentides :
Can I dm you I think I have actually
2026-07-04 11:39:11
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Amos :
Just want answers from him as I’m struggling and he’s carry on like normal
2026-05-14 21:35:12
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