@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights If your avoidant attachment style ex suddenly lost interest, pulled away, deactivated, or discarded you, this video is going to explain why avoidants often fumble the person they felt the deepest connection with. The truth about avoidant attachment is that many avoidants do not fully process the loss until later, especially when they begin repeating the same relationship patterns in future relationships. You were not “too much.” You were someone who activated intimacy, vulnerability, emotional closeness, and attachment fears they were not equipped to sustain. That is why so many people become the phantom EX for an avoidant attachment style person. Avoidants often compare future partners to the relationship that made them feel the most emotionally seen, safe, understood, and connected. And when you heal, glow up, move on, and stop chasing them, the loss becomes real in a way their nervous system could once avoid. This is why avoidant attachment breakups feel so confusing. They can deeply love you and still sabotage the relationship. They can fear losing you while simultaneously pushing you away. #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyles #phantomex

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