xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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S :
thanks for this....there is no emotional safety in my marriage im going to get the divorce
2026-05-08 21:04:09
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wise auntie :
Emotional safety is key 👌
2026-05-11 16:19:50
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mchrgal :
Have you made any videos about the reconciling period? We moved back together last week and it’s a bit awkward, a bit unsure. It feels weird getting back to family life like nothing changed when our relationship has changed so much.
2026-05-09 21:43:52
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Lori G :
We divorced and have been dating since the day of our divorce. I know…..separation would have been better I guess but at the time divorce had to be had. Life is something else.
2026-07-01 05:07:03
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Jas :
The silence is what ended my 10 year relationship
2026-05-11 06:03:10
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Ed Bryant :
Both need to be willing to do the work.
2026-05-24 06:30:35
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𝕬𝔶𝔢𝔫-𝕻𝔬𝔭𝔦𝔫𝔬¹⁴³ :
Read Clear the Noise by Leona Vale if you're struggling with anxiety/racing thoughts. literally changed my life.
2026-05-12 19:08:27
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beachymom24 :
Heading into a separation and praying it helps us in addition to separate counseling
2026-06-26 10:50:05
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user627387 :
his fyp not mine.
2026-05-13 00:49:04
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explorewithdanno :
So well said. I have personally discovered all of this on my own also - and thank you for compiling it into one video and putting my thoughts into words. It’s refreshing to know the work I’ve put in is real.
2026-05-11 03:22:47
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DTen :
Did you ever start any other relationships while burntout? if not, do you think you still could have reconciled of you had assuming your husband didn't do anything different because of it?
2026-05-09 13:38:52
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vvooffiiee :
My spouse went on deployment and just didn’t come back to me. It’s been killing me to hear me trying to show love and save it is now called me being toxic by their friend when they literally abandoned me.
2026-05-13 10:22:18
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AnothrUserName :
The part about *both people* doing individual work... 🥺
2026-05-08 21:13:26
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alextarzandxb :
Yep… Always needs Both people!
2026-05-11 05:11:25
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my.letters.about.myself :
at what point does the burnout pursuer realise that their attachment style and communication style might need fixing and correction? and how to show up for the other person?
2026-05-08 22:21:47
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AlleyCat Hydrographics LLC :
As the pursuing husband I am working on all of these with my wife to show change in myself. I know it’s not an overnight process of her trusting or seeing the changes since the issues at hand don’t happen overnight, I am in this fight to better myself and learn from my mistakes and hope that she sees my changes for the better and comes home
2026-05-09 18:44:56
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FeliciaV🙏🏾🇺🇸 :
Wrong fyp
2026-05-09 22:29:46
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hla :
YES THANKS SISTER 🥰🥰🥰👍👍👍
2026-05-12 17:01:14
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FeliciaV🙏🏾🇺🇸 :
Thank you for getting straight to
2026-05-09 22:31:22
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lilhuynh91 :
amen!!! im hoping for second chance
2026-05-09 09:09:12
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Alan1826 :
Thank you for sharing.
2026-05-09 16:50:30
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⊹ ੈ✰┆𝚅𝚊𝚕𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚊.𝚐.𝚋┆⊹ ੈ✰ :
awesome
2026-05-12 19:08:36
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MyMiniWorld :
I feel seen 🥺
2026-06-27 02:54:03
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adam Aldrich :
how do you decide who leaves for a separation neither one of us want to leave the children behind
2026-07-04 16:34:41
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Joshua McCollam :
There is no “individual” once you are married. Two become ONE. When working on “self” you should be working on “us.” Even if the work is independent work. (Ex. A partner gets help to manage their ADHD, not for themselves as an individual, but for THEM as a marriage unit).
2026-05-09 16:22:34
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