“If you’re going to be rough, you’ve got to be tough” YESSSS
2026-05-11 05:28:01
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theferalfiveandi :
Four boys 9 and under-amen to all of this. Thanks for the extra tips
2026-05-08 23:59:21
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Reilly Lamentola :
So curious about the age you were comfortable with them wrestling!! I have a fresh (BIG) one year old and almost 3 year old, and they love to be rough but only one can understand the boundaries.
2026-05-09 00:41:46
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Amanda :) :
You are inspiring! I have a 5, 3 and 6 month old boys.
2026-05-10 02:03:36
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nikilynn_ :
ALSO the last part translates to preparing for middle school big time. As a middle school counselor… first question to students- did you tell the other student to stop/you don’t like what they are doing/saying? Usually no. Then, did you tell the adult in the room at the time? Also no. It’s so important for them to learn to give the other person the opportunity to fix it. If you’ve done that and they still haven’t stopped then yes please come see me or a principal and let us intervene!
2026-05-11 16:20:56
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Katelynn Miner :
I thought I was the only one that said “if you’re gonna be rough you gotta be tough!!”
2026-06-09 00:17:00
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Sid :
Would love a video on what to do when they don’t listen. I have the most stubborn five year-old that does not care about anything. 😵💫 I also have a nine-year-old. They’re both great kids and I hear what I’m dealing withIs pretty normal but my youngest is a little tornado.
2026-05-12 22:16:58
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Danielle Cordero :
Me as a mom of 2 young boys ✍️
2026-06-09 14:55:45
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madyson 🤍 :
Love these. Obsessed with your videos as a mom of 2 boys!!
2026-06-05 13:05:52
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Cynnn :
Sending this to my only child and son who is 11, my height and is thriving in jiujitsu and wants to practice with me 🥴😂
2026-05-09 01:43:38
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rach leddy :
We have the same rules around wrestling in our house! my 2.5 and 4 yr old are non stop 🫠
2026-05-09 03:37:28
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xo.monicaellis :
I needed you when my older boys were younger. They are 11&12 now and I did notttt know how to handle it when they were small. Which the still wrestle but now they are SO MUCH BIGGER. I have a two yr old boy and pregnant with another boy so I’m thankful for this advice
2026-05-09 17:44:03
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Abby Barnwell :
I have a 4yr old boy and 2 year old girl and gosh we have the same rules! Wrestling is non stop!
2026-05-12 02:22:39
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Tayl.r :
I want to pin this on my own page lol
2026-05-09 19:07:13
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Emily Vermillion :
This is so realistic. Many of the same rules here
2026-06-16 22:33:46
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Brenda Madden :
Started following this w my two boys bc of your tips 😂
2026-05-09 00:07:18
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em Butz :
I’m here right now and this is an answered prayer!!! 💖 writing these on a poster immediately
2026-05-10 03:47:21
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Vanessa Sprizza :
I have b/g 4yr twins and a 3yr old that’s the size of a line backer and this is what I do too! My daughter holds her own but it’s WWE here
2026-05-10 02:09:58
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Lizzie Dodd :
I love this I have 3 and 4 year old boys and my 3rd on the way x
2026-05-12 05:54:21
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Jen Trúc-Ly :
Very helpful! Thank you!
2026-05-12 21:32:08
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Angelique Monet :
As a fellow boy mom, thank you. People who don’t have 2 boys close in age will never understand.
2026-07-03 11:39:22
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Victoria Pepenella :
How long do they sit out when they do? If I sit mine out, the behavior will continue again on the next go round. 😫
2026-05-24 21:49:47
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user4686000845508 :
Totally agree with these!
2026-05-10 19:49:54
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ol :
I never thought how much boys can learn from wrestling. communication, consent, strength management, rules, boundaries, ect ect
2026-05-10 08:48:23
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⚡️Chellederella🌪️ :
I had 3 boys in a row, first two were two years apart, then two and 3 were 3 years apart. These were pretty much our “combatives time” rules. They’re all teens now, 19,17, almost 14. Now the “scary” part to me is when they have all this BASS in their voices, and it makes me think it’s way more escalated than it is.
2026-05-10 22:24:15
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