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Krissy ⚡︎ :
if ur partner keeps bringing smth up over &over its just bc it hasnt been fixed, not bc they’re tryna argue
2026-05-31 00:11:49
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yassin :
the timing is mad crazy
2026-05-31 19:12:04
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joycepalau :
put it on his fyp
2026-06-02 09:55:44
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fightingthegravity :
No because why are THEIR feelings more valid than mine? Tf! I can be upset too at the same time they’re upset!
2026-05-24 16:29:07
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Gracee :
She’s absolutely right 💯a person has a right to feel how they feel and you don’t get to decide they are wrong or attacked by them, you can control yourself and your response
2026-05-12 17:45:55
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Jezzy :
I need help to understand if that’s what I’m doing when soemthing comes up I listen but after I explain my pov and why I did soemthing or how I acted based on what i received but I don’t blame or anything I say and take my responsibility and change and apologize but I always express my povs and why I did soemthing is that bad ? If so what is better ?
2026-05-17 16:46:00
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user2445613383406 :
Listening to your Mother will make you a happy man😊
2026-05-15 21:20:02
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kat 🎀 :
but i’m the one w the ego bc i beg him to listen to me and try to understand.
2026-05-16 05:01:47
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Schay :
Or over explain due to fear of rejection from past traumas or attachment style…
2026-05-12 04:20:05
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🅢🅦🅐🅣🅢🅢🅢💖 :
In any friendship too
2026-05-15 10:55:12
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Debbie Allen :
That’s the problem in most relationships, we all want to strike back and be defensive because it’s EASY. Learning to listen is HARD, accepting responsibility is HARD, apologizing is HARD; but these 3 things can make any kind of relationship stronger, better, trustworthy and more loving. So much easier said than done!
2026-05-18 17:42:26
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jackiedaytona139 :
Or you just tired of all the blaming that caused by someone else
2026-05-30 02:34:10
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Haile | Anxious Attachment :
Defensiveness is just a reflex to protect who we think we are, but listening is how we care for the person right in front of us. This is a game-changing perspective.
2026-05-20 11:26:32
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John Schiveley :
Or you are tired of hearing the same shit over and over again so your first response is not nice.
2026-05-11 23:31:27
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brenda salas :
This goes for friends too.
2026-06-01 22:49:32
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DJ :
My grandfather said the key to a happy marriage is to listen, and she’s always right. I said “but what if she’s wrong”. He said “ you’re not listening”.
2026-05-25 04:17:59
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bosco1525 :
Your Mom is a wise woman.
2026-05-12 15:08:28
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The horse of jazz :
I know I'm not the best, I know I'm doing a lot of mistakes, but this time Ill make it right
2026-06-19 00:01:05
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Angela :
also, sometimes it's not about ego.. but rather about childhood trauma
2026-05-12 21:56:08
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FeuilleDeLaurier :
Unfortunately I do that, I really need to change my habits
2026-06-01 04:52:26
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Collecting_Relics❌ :
…OR it could be your partner is one of those people who are just never satisfied with anything you do or say and you’re not actually the problem. You have to know where the issue is; it’s not always you. Remember that.
2026-05-21 16:46:23
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Lone Eagle :
Good mom❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-11 21:35:02
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Linda :
SMART MOMMA ❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-11 18:41:52
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aceofspace836 :
Put this on his FYP
2026-05-14 14:34:14
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Deena Prather :
TRUTH!!
2026-05-12 08:43:59
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