Ashlee Hoelck | Homeschool Mom
Region: US
Saturday 09 May 2026 14:27:24 GMT
550377
38297
923
1463
Music
Download
Comments
Natty :
It literally is a job, it's called invisible labor. Nannying is a job, being a teacher is a job, being a housekeeper is a job, being a bookkeeper is a job, chef/cook is a job. A SAHM does literally all this and more.
2026-05-12 22:54:42
3697
jenniecarlsmith7 :
Working parents have to do all that + work
2026-05-13 03:31:52
802
e.sanchez.14 :
I’m a SAHD and it’s the easiest “job” I’ve ever had
2026-05-12 22:42:47
409
Mommy Tina sent me :
parenting is a lifestyle choice. not a job. if you view parenting as a job, you're doing it wrong. raising kids is hard work but it's a labor of love.
2026-05-12 21:18:25
435
grace :
Nannying is a job daycare is a job teaching is a job! Being around kids all day is WORK
2026-05-11 22:49:34
433
Miss Amorà Starr :
Someone said "if it's easy you're doing it wrong" and I couldn't agree more, especially if you're doing it without support.
2026-05-13 15:02:00
307
🌻Chantell🌻 :
AND I don’t even get retirement, 401K, a PAYCHECK, sick leave?!!!! 😩😂😂😂
2026-05-13 12:34:22
233
saruhsauce131 :
I’d rather be a sahm than work tbh. You can do what you want on your time.
2026-05-13 08:35:43
69
Shreddski :
I spent 2 months being a SAHD while I was layed off from work last year, 4 kids, 2 home with me all day, and I sat there a lot of days with all house chores caught up wondering what I was doing wrong because everybody said it would be hard
2026-05-13 12:48:52
28
dflo925 :
Yeah, it is easy.
2026-05-13 12:18:07
22
Rakewnrebel :
My husband actually said my job was harder than his. We agreed we could never trade places.
2026-05-09 21:29:27
37
Baylee Morton :
Cooking, cleaning, childcare, transportation, grocery shopping, finance budgeting, scheduling and for homeschool like my kids teaching, are all PAID jobs yet we do them as sahm! You’re definitely not lazy momma!
2026-05-11 17:41:27
58
Shades🎤Of🎭Gray🎧🎶 :
Not the mention the absolute mental health nightmare of it being Groundhog Day every day with folding laundry that never ends, dishes that never seem to end, no friends and never leaving the house unless it’s for a kids activity.
2026-05-13 12:51:27
15
GRACETONY🤍✨ :
Seriously the hardest job ever
2026-05-11 17:05:06
27
ashleigh :
my mental health has never been worse. idk why people cant just be empathetic and understand not everyone has the same experience. Just because you had an easy time with it doesn't invalidate the experiences of others. it's so so so easy to just have some empathy instead of intentionally trying to put others down
2026-05-13 03:09:14
34
Haley :
My sister always brings up how I don’t work but it’s literally a never ending job, no clocking out, no lunch breaks.
2026-05-13 15:37:03
76
Jasmine :
As someone whos done both, easiest thing is working part time fr. Staying at home all the time is deadly for mental health and working full time is exhausting and all I do is miss my kid
2026-05-13 19:24:13
14
arak317 :
I work in the medical field where 16-18hr shifts are my norm. I was a SAHM for four years. Being a SAHM was the hardest job I’ve ever had.
2026-05-13 19:51:12
9
jiminycrickets :
Just went back to work after being a sahm for 12 years… I’d rather be at home
2026-05-13 00:50:23
206
QE2 :
I'm exhausted. it's 944am.
2026-05-13 16:44:59
9
Vanessa Marie :
I swear it depends on your situation cause I’m a SAHM with just one, no animals to have to chase after, a huge village and a husband who is home half the month so we spilt cooking, cleaning and caregiving most of the time and it’s the easiest phase of my life. I absolutely love it here.
2026-05-13 15:27:08
10
stacy ⋆⋆☆⋆⋆ :
But yet if u want someone to do your job u have to pay them like 25-40 an hour lol
2026-05-10 17:41:47
18
katieconger0 :
and its 24/7! no breaks, im dying over here. Than if I decide to go back to work, I have to start at the bottom because im not missing work experience. Its BS
2026-05-13 18:13:37
5
ris :
100% agree but being a sahm is also a privilege in itself
2026-05-13 19:44:29
5
To see more videos from user @homeschoolandhoelck, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
