@tess.lavanda: do it alone. #london #aloneinlondon #solodate #movingtolondon #lifeinyourtwenties

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rickxxx777
user566800560214 :
This is the London feeling
2026-05-09 22:57:13
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lampshade1988
TikToktiktok :
Feels like everyone in London is alone. Together
2026-05-10 00:13:58
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cristian_al3jandro
alejo_ :
I’m so glad I found The Reflection You Never Faced by Emma Vale. It’s one of those rare books that genuinely shifts your mindset
2026-05-11 13:15:35
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marilupoeta
marilupoeta :
This is why I cannot get rid of the feeling that I need to leave immediately. I love London with all my heart, but I don’t want to be strong anymore. The loneliness of the city is just insufferable. And sometimes you have friends and plans on the weekends, but why it feels like we are never fully connected? It is so weird. I feel i cannot count on anyone, even though i have nice people around me
2026-05-10 20:37:32
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noblindspotsleft2
noblindspotsleft :
Just enjoy the park by yourself! The rest will come
2026-05-09 20:48:39
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andrea_sancheezz
Andrea Sánchez :
London is a massive city but it can make you feel very lonely!
2026-05-10 09:23:45
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estella.anna
Estella :
Such a cute full circle moment because I was right there on the grass on my own while you were there and now I’m watching this
2026-05-10 15:10:52
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wizbit5678
kelly :
I've slowly realised ..no one cares ..I've noticed people alone and that thought last seconds in my mind, actually it gives me courage to do just the same .
2026-05-09 22:46:10
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thelifestylecontent
The LifeStyle Content :
The fact that so many people feel the same, or someone people have similar experiences and scenarios to me, is a shocker to me, I always though I was the only one, but this is a shared experience.
2026-05-10 11:01:33
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stretchandflo
Flo | Pilates Instructor :
This is how instagram makes me feel
2026-05-10 12:55:26
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aray202007
aray202007 :
this is honestly what i love about living in london, it’s so freeing and (as an introvert) perfectly lonely. i love the freedom of being able to leave the house and see no one i know
2026-05-21 06:13:16
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alltoothais
Thais 🌻 :
London is great for solo exploring, no one will ever bat an eye for you being alone. That said, I live in SW girl lets hangggg!!
2026-05-10 07:24:12
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samgeorgiaellie
Sam :
It feels isolating, but whenever I see someone on their own I don’t think it’s weird at all, no one is judging and that’s beautiful 💕
2026-05-15 10:30:12
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jrwone
intsta @jrwone :
that is 100% London we are free to be and do anything you want and no one will bat an eyelid 💫✨ best city in the world 💖
2026-05-10 08:53:35
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roobmegapriv
Roobmegapriv :
This is how I’ve felt my whole life until I just started doing things I wanted to do on my own for fun
2026-05-14 22:03:41
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babyyyy_gee
G :
Girl I’ll hang out with you!
2026-05-10 17:02:10
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miniikuii
minikuii :
Feel this often. Do I belong in London?
2026-05-10 15:37:53
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lannaindyy
Lanna Indy :
Oh my god! This is so resonating!
2026-05-23 15:35:37
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hanginghearts8
hanginghearts :
OMFG I FEEL LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME
2026-05-28 01:46:44
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peterjonesstyle
peterjonesstyle🧿 :
Also when you look around alotttt of people are on their own too
2026-05-10 05:46:22
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locksnick
Nick :
For me the no-one cares is part of the problem. I travel a lot, end up in so many amazing places, but always alone and pretty much always the only one alone. It's so awkward approaching groups of people and this era of phone scrolling adds to the awkwardness. I love my independence but yes I do feel I'm missing out. I don't drink, smoke or vape either which in a social context doesn't help.
2026-05-10 22:57:32
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dylan_fa1502
Dylan Foster-Atkinson :
It’s that feeling of wanting to experience those things but are you really experiencing it when you’re on your own and not with people? Still though you should always make the most of your time and go experience the things you want to do!
2026-05-09 23:50:52
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sarahsairsss
sarahhh :
as a born + raised londoner, people can be really welcoming if you just start talking to/engaging with them. it can feel scary but ive had countless random interactions with strangers that have had lovely endings/new friendships. twice now i’ve been alone and then randomly ended up on a night out with strangers! it just starts with a smile, compliment, question or even a small offering! an old lady literally walked up to me at a bus stop today to show me a pile of leaves and petals on the floor that looked pretty and we ended up having the best conversation that ended with us bellying laughing and talking about how important it is to just engage with other humans. i know you’re not asking for advice but i always see people saying that london is lonely/antisocial but i’ve never agreed with it! while its good practice to be okay with your own company, if you are feeling lonely its a rewarding thing to try 💓✨
2026-05-10 21:05:03
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grahamleggett
Graham Leggett 🇬🇧 🇪🇺 :
I remember years ago sitting by the lions in Trafalgar Square on my own on a Saturday night. Spoke to so many people. Still remember it.
2026-05-09 19:49:15
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leiaamichel
leia michel :
i feel this 100%. i love being on my own and doing things for myself, but also sometimes i wish i had ppl to do those things with. i think both feelings are simultaneously valid!
2026-05-10 02:10:54
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