I struggle with people not thinking I’m a mom even though I went through pregnancy and labor, my baby was just born sleeping. I wish close family and friends recognized I still count. It makes me feel invisible.
2026-05-10 22:56:20
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eclipseszn7 :
Is it NOT your first Mother’s Day. It’s your first Mother’s Day with LUCY. Your boy mattered, HE was REAL, HE was LOVED. I lost my boy July of 2023 but I gave birth to my girl July of 2025. This is my first Mother’s Day with her but I will ALWAYS BE HIS MOMMA.
2026-05-10 23:25:53
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TJRN :
its is YOUR motherhood. you get to define it however you want and we listen ❤️
2026-05-10 19:27:42
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Jasmine | Cat mum🐱🧡 :
As a midwife, I always belie you become a mother from the moment those two lines appear.
From the moment your heart begins loving someone you haven’t even met yet.
Loss does not erase motherhood.
Love does not disappear because a baby could not stay.
So this is not your first Mother’s Day — it’s simply a Mother’s Day that carries a different kind of love, a different kind of ache, and now, new meaning too.
To the baby you carry in your arms, and the one you carry in your heart — both made you a mother.
Happy Mother’s Day 🩷
2026-05-10 19:24:46
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RalphLaurenThePup :
I had a miscarriage 3 years ago. I don’t know if I’m supposed to be over it. But I’m not.
2026-05-10 20:09:48
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Bri :
I've had two second trimester losses and have no living children. I know most people don't see me as a mom, but I see myself that way. I get much more sleep and I get to travel and there's a lot that I don't get to experience, but I am a mom. Happy Mother's Day. It's okay that it's complicated.
2026-05-10 20:17:23
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LaLa :
Today would’ve been my fist Mother’s Day if my baby made it. Thank you for this it made me feel not so alone
2026-05-10 19:37:16
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jocelynleger :
Your first rainbow baby Mother’s Day, your second Mother’s Day all around. Once a mom always a mom. You will forever be that baby boys mom 🫶
2026-05-10 19:21:48
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erikaraven :
My grandmother is 77 with dementia. And as we wished her happy Mother’s Day she said, with tears in her eyes, Michael’s birthday is on the 15th. He was her firstborn son that died before he turned 1. Grief never leaves.
2026-05-11 05:26:12
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TheDutchess :
You are Leo’s mum, you are Lucy’s mom. Don’t let anyone tell you any different
2026-05-10 19:51:01
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LyndFarr :
I used to say, “yes this is my first Mother’s Day with my son” and leave it at that. That first one felt so loaded and complicated
2026-05-10 19:32:47
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JB :
Girl ur feelings are valid! And honestly who is normal!? No one! One day at a time 🫶🏼
2026-05-12 00:31:28
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user7475603876428 :
Thank you for this. Today felt a lot heavier than I expected it to be. I’ve been a mother for 3 years now, but this will be my first Mother’s Day with a baby earth side. 🩷💙
2026-05-11 02:56:31
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Ren :
Yes yes yes! This has been me all weekend, grateful but sad❤️🩹
2026-05-11 00:56:23
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Caroline Robertson :
It wouldn’t be motherhood if it wasn’t complicated and messy 💕
2026-05-12 03:13:55
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ursula_obrien :
Hugs ♥️
2026-05-25 19:20:26
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xaaaayxa :
I loved this even if am late couldn’t relate more 💗
2026-05-31 23:40:26
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Taylor Shelnutt :
Honestly this is so relatable as someone who still isn’t celebrating a “first Mother’s Day” - Mother’s Day now comes with a ton of emotions
2026-05-11 19:23:33
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ayla :
My baby would be 7 years old this year. It didn't occur to me that I've been a mother this whole time, but I miss her every day
2026-05-11 02:49:17
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msliloria :
Not your first Mother’s Day but your first with Lucy 🤍
2026-05-11 01:10:12
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Andi :
You became a mother the first day you looked at that pregnancy test and smiled. ❤️
2026-05-10 19:55:15
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melba_toast_ed :
You are a mom to BOTH of your babies. You are a mother. Period.
2026-05-11 02:20:56
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Divya :
A moms love never stops no matter what ♥️
2026-05-11 01:27:12
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Stephanie Estrada :
you are a mother of 2, first one you're celebrating you're still grieving thats okay sending so much love
2026-05-10 21:09:30
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Bailey👼🏼 :
People keep telling me “happy first Mother’s Day” I keep reminding them it’s my third…
2026-05-11 04:32:20
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