@_shotbyandrew: For a long time, I thought loving someone was enough. But in my past relationships, I was still overthinking, needing reassurance, getting defensive, and making the relationship feel heavier without even realizing it. I cared deeply, but I still didn’t know how to show up in a way that actually felt secure, grounded, and safe to love. That’s something I’ve had to learn the hard way over the years. If you’re in a relationship and constantly overthinking, and you know your own patterns are affecting something good, DM me “SECURE” and I can help! #growth #Love #relationships #life #girlfriend
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Monday 11 May 2026 01:32:23 GMT
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🐈⬛ :
his fyp, not mine
2026-05-15 01:14:45
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Hehexd :
Yeah, take accountability for everything but when the script flips, they never do, and we’re looked at as the problem because we’re always “sorry” and they lose respect.
2026-06-18 01:42:11
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angie ren :
can you make a video on how you came to this realization?
2026-05-13 16:32:27
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Zer09 :
sometimes being understanding is draining because you have to invalidate your own feelings just to understand theirs.
2026-05-23 08:04:11
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🧸ྀི𝓗🧸ྀི :
GO TO HIS FYP PLEASE
2026-05-18 14:08:50
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Ninah :
I think explaining ourselves is a part of learning about each other’s ways of functioning and thinking. I personally like to know exactly what my partner meant, what they were thinking, and what was going on inside that led to the troubles. AND ONLY THEN can we proactively correct and move forward.
2026-05-16 00:08:06
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dark :
i hate how loving people is so hard, you spend years trying to love them and its always the wrong way
2026-05-14 01:09:58
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haevusss :
I realized it too late until the last moment and now she’s hurt but now I’m taking accountability and making up and hoping she sees it
2026-05-22 01:48:51
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𝒿𝓊𝓁𝑒𝓈 🐚 :
and he wonders why i get upset even more about it
2026-06-16 21:32:55
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Yru :
such a perfect timing man, I'll try. no, I'll definitely do this. i want her forever
2026-05-18 12:15:21
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Rich Tita 🧿🪬 :
his fyp
2026-05-14 09:00:57
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hanna :
his fyp, not mine.
2026-05-16 00:18:04
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soy :
I really needed this, thanks
2026-05-11 02:32:15
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M A L A Y A✨ :
I feel so sad knowing that I already told him multiple times but He Didn't do anything.but my heart still wants him..it's like choosing him make me not choosing myself.
2026-05-18 19:49:43
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bacon pancakes :
His fyp please
2026-05-16 19:27:40
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Grim :
Can u put all these on his fyp and not mine.
2026-05-15 10:24:56
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Nana ᯓ★ :
his fyp
2026-05-15 12:45:14
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.𖥔 ݁ ˖ K a y l s ˖ ݁ 𖥔. :
heavy on the silent repost
2026-05-16 17:39:18
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arಇ :
put this in his fyp
2026-05-16 05:35:51
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FAITH :
Can someone please send this to him?🙂
2026-05-16 02:39:47
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C.A💋 :
NOT THE SONG SELECTION 😭
2026-05-16 11:18:25
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kiwi :
Even if this goes through his fyp, he won’t even bother to listen or if he would, he won’t remember and comprehend it properly.
2026-05-19 15:56:48
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