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whatyerdoin :
i see so many stories, reddit and outside of it, of people saying "i thought you would change your mind about kids". kids is arguably one of the biggest things you should agree on before getting married. you should never ever expect someone to just "change their mind"
2026-05-13 20:36:49
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🫶🏻 :
They’re both right. She’s allowed to change her mind and he’s allowed to not change his. The only reasonable solution is divorce, bc they want different things.
2026-05-15 06:47:49
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KyleZeEnabler🏳️⚧️ :
if she uses an ultimatum, I would stick to the ultimatum. You don't get to say that and not mean it.
2026-05-13 18:25:59
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LoriMandle :
Divorce can be a boundary, but never an ultimatum. “I won’t stay in a relationship where we cannot agree on the matter of kids” is fine, “Have kids with me or I’m leaving you” is not
2026-05-13 19:18:10
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Junko Osaki :
“You would eventually change your mind…?”
2026-05-14 18:29:47
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El Ko :
Having children is not something you can compromise on! If you are not on the same page - separate. No other choice.
2026-05-14 05:47:45
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JustForTea :
This is why before you marry someone you have to be honest about this kind of stuff. Be honest if you think you want kids if you know you don’t want kids and nothing will change your mind or vice versa because this is always a point that will end our relationship and it’s better to do it before marriage then after.
2026-05-14 13:46:55
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wawa⁷ :
No matter if discussed before or not, opinions change especially big ones like having kids, if your partner wants kids and you don’t then you should divorce. Yes it’s sad but there’s nothing more to it, just split.
2026-05-13 22:24:55
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Bunni :
This is my biggest fear as someone who doesn’t want kids, getting married to someone I think loves and agrees with me only to find out they just didn’t respect me enough to listen to my opinion and just assumed I’d change it.
2026-05-16 07:22:15
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yuki ♡ :
my dad didnt want kids but for my mum he had me and my sister. This made our childhood pretty tumultuous. I asked him again recently when he was saying people should have children why he was being a hypocrite because he didn’t want children and he ended up saying because it was the biggest mistake. This didn’t stop my childhood being very confusing when I met my boyfriend, I made sure straight off the bat, even if we want to stay together forever that I want children and I was only gonna stick around if he did too. I don’t want that life for my kids. bonus my bf did want kids and we been together 3 years and planning our life together :)
2026-05-15 04:13:36
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0rk1id :
Ok but like I’ve NEVER heard that saying at the end of the
2026-05-13 22:52:37
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Magic :
I told my uncle I brought up no kids on a first date and he was like “well you never know” I do. Cool for you if you changed your mind after meeting baby me 23 years ago but I know.
2026-05-20 23:43:59
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DrZeeky :
Nope, you can't just change something this fundamental especially with an ultimatum 😳😳
2026-05-13 18:48:42
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AlmightyMephisto :
Oh man, this hit harder than I thought 😕 my relationship fell apart for this exact reason, even the age of OP is the same as mine 🫣
2026-05-14 10:54:17
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EvannAngel :
Wanting or not wanting kids should never be something that someone compromises on. Kids deserve to be wanted by both parents.
2026-05-15 02:09:27
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Lepa tuautu :
If you don’t see eye to eye on this subject then it’s better to divorce
2026-05-13 23:44:10
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Sue :
yeah thats a lose the marriage
2026-05-13 19:12:47
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dog_mom0192 :
The consequences of being a pick me is that one day they will realize all the things they changed and or did for the other person didn’t produce the results they wanted then get resentful.
2026-05-15 11:31:10
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Zucchan :
DIVORCE
2026-05-13 22:42:34
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cf0e2 :
I'm on ops side but he was honestly annoying. like just realize it's over and move on
2026-05-14 12:50:56
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WrongFooted :
I hate when people change their mind so deep in the relationship
2026-07-28 11:33:12
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rdcnrs :
Full Story, Tranks! I’m commenting, liking and saving
2026-07-08 11:34:25
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rafa :
Both parents have got to want a child otherwise things get difficult and that’s not fair to the child
2026-06-07 17:09:00
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loreinanv :
I hate when people marry someone and hope they can change their minds once the ring is on 😢
2026-06-29 03:13:07
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YellowRanger33 :
i am with him,divorce
2026-06-13 10:46:37
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