@y0ngsheng: EP 29 stay kind as always, but stop expecting you from people not everyone has the same heart as you #fyp #lifelessons #advice #mentality #adulting
not everyone has the same heart as you was probably one of the hardest lessons i learned over the years growing up, especially when someone once made you feel safe enough to finally stop expecting people to leave. i think that’s why empathy and emotional accountability matter too, because when you ask someone to trust you, love you openly, and lower their walls around you, the impact of how things end stays longer than people realize. and even after that i still think choosing to stay kind is one of the hardest and bravest things a person can do, especially for people who learned how to survive by becoming emotionally strong for everyone except themselvess
2026-05-11 09:24:47
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Twxsted :
Thank you so much, man. I’ve only seen two of your vids on my fyp but it already opened up my mind a little. I needed to hear these. Recently I’ve been caring so much about how someone performs that may directly affect me. I had expectations on them. And when it doesn’t go my way, I just end up getting wrecked while the other doesn’t give a care. Maybe all I had to do was to avoid expectations. Thanks again. Hope you have a good day
2026-05-15 02:04:26
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Two Prata Kosong :
Understanding that not everyone has the same heart as you and removing all expectations that people will do the same as you will for them - truly truly sets you free
2026-06-07 08:25:05
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0ggysss :
People think I changed, but the truth is I just stopped begging to be understood by people who only listened when it was convenient for them.
2026-05-29 18:00:13
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sunkiller :
Reminder: Do not turn empathy into self abandonment 🤍
2026-05-13 14:29:08
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noh :
thank you
2026-06-02 13:29:01
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Mr.A.แองกัส :
thank you so much.
2026-05-31 03:49:51
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p :
I tried my best to make my friend happy, when she needs help I try my best to help her and provide the best for her, but when I ask something from her she refused and just avoided it. So, when she tried asking me for something I avoided it. And now she starting ignoring me. Am I the wrong one?
2026-05-17 17:37:51
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死神乌龙 :
sigh... this is so relatable...
2026-05-11 14:07:31
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capitano’sno.1c0ckwarmingwh0re :
is it possible for people with different hearts to be compatible
2026-05-26 01:25:29
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101yao :
i did this this this… “ so what “ just because you risked it all doesn’t mean they will do the same, the expectation kills you slowly.
2026-05-25 13:17:08
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Chueh :
沒錯
2026-06-01 01:53:01
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Henry :
false expectation of reciprocity
2026-05-11 10:29:07
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Y4n :
@ryan @*ੈ𝒿 @cwyz @wansueyla
2026-05-13 02:21:46
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