What’s bad is I experience anxiety and emotional turmoil when I can’t be useful or help. I literally get physically sick and feel guilty because I can’t help.
2026-07-17 02:36:53
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Soraya E :
The way I used to date men who reminded me of my dad simply because it felt familiar. That's a hard truth to face.
Still in therapy and coaching, and I'm unlearning so much nonsense I accepted as normal. The irony is that my dad was practically nonexistent in my life. No matter what I did, I always felt like I came last. I accepted bread crumbs from so many mens because I didn't know better.
Healing has meant recognizing those patterns and choosing something different! I can't wait to meet my future husband in my healed version of myself!😮💨
2026-07-17 21:31:35
1
Ms.Kaavz :
I am learning to be completely useless. I am done being useful.
2026-05-11 22:40:41
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Rogue Beautii :
Ma’am. It’s 8am… but thank you
2026-07-17 12:22:23
1
Udo🇬🇧🇳🇬♈️ :
Now am loving myself they re saying I have changed and being wicked
2026-07-18 12:41:59
0
T. :
Only child
2026-07-17 06:49:55
0
Tinuade Baby 🧚♀️ :
And this is why I’ve deliberately become useless 🙃
2026-05-12 12:56:47
494
chilumba🌸 :
Even with my parents… I feel like I was only loved when I started excelling academically..
2026-05-12 08:24:02
795
Aderonke :
I’m learning to stop overextending myself for people.
I’m done making myself endlessly useful at my own expense. These days, I just tell myself… been there, done that… never again.
2026-05-12 07:51:01
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Okoh scholartical :
Identifying patterns in your life is very important
2026-05-12 08:35:22
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n o • a e s t h e t i c s :
You the voice on that Beyonce song ???
2026-07-16 06:49:16
1
JoJoTz_ :
Next time, hold my hand first please🥲😩
2026-05-12 07:29:13
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Perfume lover :
Felt like being useful would guarantee the affection and attention.
2026-05-12 23:45:12
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tamunat0rrr🍄 :
Velma, at least hold my hand first??
2026-05-12 22:17:35
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Clancy(Taylor’s version) :
Me deciding I will never have children because I don't want to be useful anymore😭😭😭
2026-05-13 22:56:40
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vickkycraft :
I need a hug 🥺
2026-05-13 12:12:23
40
mamake#Israel :
a firstborn,first daughter,a child to very strict parents...how did I even survive...I need a hug
2026-05-13 15:45:56
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Khita🧘🏾 :
You didn't hold my hand 😭😭
2026-05-13 09:43:05
10
Feyisayo_Jolaawo😇⁷ :
I DESERVE TO BE LOVED🗣
2026-05-12 17:34:16
9
Lizzy 🦋 :
how do I like this a zillion times 😩💔🙌❤️🔥🔥🔥🤏👌
2026-05-13 01:24:26
5
TheManifestFolder :
I want to be useless and rested, then watch me bloom to everything I am able to give you and more with ease and by choice. 💌
2026-07-16 22:02:50
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BSonblastBel3arabi :
I was just sitting here quietly, next thing I know I’m being read down to the bone 😭
2026-05-22 01:33:54
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