@herworthclub: Most women think “pulling back” is about manipulation. It’s not. Healthy distance is not about punishing someone into valuing you. It’s about stopping the emotional overextension that was slowly disconnecting you from yourself in the first place. A lot of women don’t realize they’ve made the relationship the center of their nervous system until they finally create space and feel how exhausted they actually are. That’s why distance creates clarity. Not because you’re playing games. But because you finally have enough space to see the dynamic without emotionally drowning inside of it. And honestly? Some relationships only survive because one person is emotionally overfunctioning for both people. The moment she stops overcompensating… the truth reveals itself. This is exactly why I created Feminine Reset, Provider Magnet, my private coaching, and Feminine Reboot. Because women were taught how to chase connection… but never taught how to stay connected to themselves. Xoxo 🧚♀️✨ GLOW MOTHER
I tried to do this omg. When I do focused on myself, he starts to miss me. One time, he said we can’t work things out because he is a busy man and I don’t deserve being left out. I didn’t respond or go hysterical. I just seen his message and focus on my goals. He starts to message me and promised that he’ll be consistent.
2026-05-11 17:06:36
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Kim🖤 :
it was draining me soooo badly
2026-05-12 00:27:34
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Studio GXLD✨ :
This applies to friendships as well.
2026-05-13 21:05:11
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lexi_.bae3 :
The timing is crazyyyyyyy
2026-05-14 05:20:59
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user2674749292739 :
distance makes the heart fonder
2026-05-13 02:25:31
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☆KC☆ :
random, i love ur nose
2026-06-16 07:40:00
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lifeofdrika :
She’s 100% correct i learned this about myself years ago and TikTok has helped me overcome all of this. It’s so hard but once you are there it’s worth everything! You will no longer overextend yourself
2026-06-11 13:45:53
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dandelions :
How do you find your purpose? I'm struggling so much with looking for it and it becomes overwhelming and paralyzing
2026-05-13 18:51:33
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Alicia_Kunihira :
Almost skipped a video with such a PRECIOUS message, God bless you more Queen
2026-05-11 16:24:48
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KnowaWoman :
You come in my feed at the right time
2026-05-20 17:43:08
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Annie :
I did this and I broke up realising I don’t want it anymore
2026-05-16 03:56:10
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Onyinyechi :
Queen 👑, since I started listening to you my brain have rewired so beautifully ☺️
2026-05-11 20:41:24
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ZOE Yoga Lifestyle :
I’m in my space era in every facet of my life ♒️very revealing
2026-05-11 15:57:13
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rachelletyler_ :
I just Figured this out this year !!!!!
2026-05-13 19:01:10
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Janae Nikki Hilliard :
I needed this!!
2026-05-14 09:47:22
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YouMeAdhd&More2 :
I realised this the other day and I changed the narrative the other day, I put my needs first which means we have had to have a week and a half apart, I didn't abandon myself and I'm focusing on my goals, my fitness, my recovery, I needed it so much. I am doing me, he is the addition now, I had slipped into him being my whole world for a while and thanks to your posts I am doing something different, thank you
2026-05-16 20:14:53
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Pretty Melanin 💋 :
So happy i live alone. It makes me focusing on myself much easier
2026-05-13 12:42:38
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j.mariek :
Currently going through this. Last contact day was Monday, finally got him to leave.
2026-05-14 15:18:55
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Morgan🫶🏾 :
And if you live together?
2026-05-12 19:26:55
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C.Aliyah 🫶🏽 :
Second video I seen from you that I needed, definitely followed!
2026-06-13 02:20:33
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