@sarajaneho: Wonder why Chinese women look young years after giving birth? Chinese mothers strictly adhere to a postpartum tradition called zuo yuezi“sitting the month.” For 30 days after birth, new moms stay indoors, rest deeply, and nourish their bodies with warming foods like herbal soups—often with the help of a confinement nanny who supports both mom and baby during recovery. The idea is simple in traditional Chinese medicine: childbirth is a major physical event, and recovery deserves real time and care—not a rushed return to normal life. Some of the core practices include: ✨ Staying warm and avoiding cold exposure ✨ Eating nutrient-dense “confinement soups” to rebuild strength ✨ Prioritizing rest, healing, and hands-on support Interestingly, this tradition is starting to trend beyond Chinese culture, with more Western moms exploring versions of postpartum confinement and hiring support to focus on healing. The intention behind it is powerful: slow down, restore, and protect your energy during one of life’s biggest transitions. This deep period of rest and restoration has long-term benefits—often credited as one reason Chinese women maintain their health and vitality as they age. Listen to the full conversation on HOT WATER podcast - “From toxic exes to post partum confinement - and everything in between”
Sara Jane Ho
Region: US
Monday 11 May 2026 20:16:01 GMT
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Haha :
We do 3 weeks in Germany: one Week in bed, one on the couch and one in the apartment, under regular midwife care. It’s called Wochenbett.
2026-05-13 17:32:15
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Gazala 73 :
I’m south Asian and we stay at home for 40 days. We have bone broth and rest as much as possible. Family step in and help for 40 days. So the new mum can rest as much as possible 💕💕💕
2026-05-11 20:38:53
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Tebbie Dee :
here🇧🇼 we do it for 3 full months
2026-05-14 06:18:05
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Unique Soul :
Ohh wow I was standing my own 7 hours after cc and I was home next day taking full care of my newborn child and 7 years old daughter that time all by myself
2026-05-19 20:11:46
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A Neighbour :
I like your informative videos
2026-05-28 18:26:52
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Tee :
While I was own my own with all my 3 boys doing normal duties
2026-05-28 20:08:25
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Christy :
3 months for my people.🇨🇮 Ivory Coast
2026-05-19 19:45:35
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TATA :
My Mom did this for me. No cold drinks, No Baths for 30 days. Just warm “sponges” and hot soupy foods. 💪🏻💙🩷
2026-05-13 21:22:15
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Lucky charm 🍀 :
Also, the bonding between the mother with baby
2026-05-17 11:53:56
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LoulouM :
Love the idea of staying in and being looked after but my first goal immediately after giving birth was getting in getting in the shower and giving my hair a good wash.
2026-05-13 20:16:06
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Amilove :
40 days
2026-05-21 20:29:50
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Svnstr33t :
I wish I would've had this support 😔
2026-05-14 10:20:28
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ncl@banele :
We also do it in South Africa, normally it’s a family member who assists you during this period
2026-05-15 13:54:10
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Celin Garcia942 :
Love this🙏
2026-05-16 02:06:23
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samwhambham :
Thats basically what my mom did for me when i gave birth moved in for 2 weeks she is wonderful ❤️
2026-05-11 21:30:54
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Judah 🌸 :
Ito rin ginawa ko..Ito kasi ang sabi ng Lola namin..Confinement pala tawag nito🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-15 14:29:43
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Julia Q84 :
I thought the nanny was the mother or the mother in law
2026-05-17 09:15:39
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silviasantana2316 :
In Mexico is call cuarentena (40days) and same. My mom prep meals help with baby. She also prep months early herbs to put it in my stomach to help healing. She will wrap with cotton cloth around my belly.
2026-05-13 15:16:24
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jj_4441 :
نفس عندنا ف آلسعوديه ماتطلع النفاس لين تخلص الأربعين
2026-05-12 09:38:15
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ƑʉͫcͧкͭιͪηͣFuffie :
I did this in Canada, but my reasoning was that the babies immune system was not strong enough to be around people.
2026-05-14 00:18:07
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🍒 :
no bc
2026-05-29 10:30:32
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45970 :
in tunisia we do it for 40 days but in that period people go to the house of tge mum to congratulate for the new born and after 40 days no visitis
2026-05-16 00:03:24
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Angélica Vélez | Estratega ⭐️ :
Increíble que a la gente le parezca esto raro … y la que la entrevista se ríe… o sea, así de mal está el mundo.
2026-05-27 16:36:30
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Sotello PR :
Doula
2026-05-16 23:33:25
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The Edit by Dunia :
We do 40 days in Kuwait as well. Also stay away from cold
2026-05-12 04:25:33
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